wawa Posted January 8, 2011 Posted January 8, 2011 Hello. Girlfriend i was dating for two years wanted to break up the summer of 2010. So she currently has a boyfriend and after agreeing not to talk to each other anymore I get a random text that says "I miss you." Sticking to our agreement I did not reply to the text which was followed by another one two hours later. It said "Do you not miss me? I am going to be in the area tmr." She lives in a different state. Again I just ignored the text and went to bed. Please note that shes currently traveling with her boyfriend when she texted me. I know this because she told me prior to agreeing not to talk that she would be traveling with him and would pass by my area. I wake up the next day with 3 missed calls from her. Again I ignore and go on with my day. I fractured my rib so I went to the hospital and she continued to call me. I let 10 go by without picking up but when it became a bother to the doctor I simply picked up to tell her to stop calling me. But before I could even get a word in she said "I miss you and I am going to break up with my boyfriend." I replied "Why are you telling me this, just try and work it out with him, Im busy I gotta go" and I hung up. 7 more calls followed about an hour later that I ignored. Today I get one call in the morning around 1030 which I ignored. 5 hours later I got a text that said "I am still so in love with you and I cant stop thinking about you and its driving me nuts. I just needed to say that. Sorry for calling. Bye and good luck." After seeing this I was confused but I ignored it. 2 hours later just because I was a little worried about her, I called her one time. She did not pick up. What is going on? Why is she telling me this? What do I do? Love shack population I ask you, Did I miss my chance?
SDA Posted January 8, 2011 Posted January 8, 2011 Don't think you missed it. Maybe try again in a day or two and if you are absolutely positive about getting back with her I would say "Sorry I was rude, I was in the hospital and I was unaware of your actions, we should meet up" something like that
Mrlonelyone Posted January 9, 2011 Posted January 9, 2011 I concur you haven't missed a chance yet. Though do not be surprised if she ignores some of your communications the way you did to her's. It is also possible that she's just having some problems with the new BF and wants to introduce some competition... Either way these things are never resolved in a week or a day or even what now.... 6 months since you heard from this woman last?
dng Posted January 10, 2011 Posted January 10, 2011 Dont hate me for this, but you didnt miss your chance. You never had one. This is just background noise. She may or may not break up with him. She's in the position were she's not sure about it and she's exploring her options. Hard to see from where you stand but really easy to see from here.
aerogurl87 Posted January 10, 2011 Posted January 10, 2011 She said she's about to break up with him, not "I broke up with him and I want you back, please give me a second chance". Anything less than that is just her testing the waters to see if you'll be a good backup plan.
whatadeer26 Posted January 10, 2011 Posted January 10, 2011 You didnt miss anything, but wait for her to call you again. once was enough.
marqueemoon4 Posted January 10, 2011 Posted January 10, 2011 Yea, sounds like you're in a pretty good position.. she's professing love for you, I wouldn't read to much into her not answering your call. I'm sure you'll talk soon enough, but let her be the one to call.
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