jwallace1986 Posted January 8, 2011 Posted January 8, 2011 Hi all, feeling pretty awful right now any words of similar experience would be great. Broke up with ex girlfriend of 8 months due to her not being over her ex and still having feelings for him. I knew that she liked me and i did make her happy but i also knew it was clearly rebound situation. Even though it felt horrible i respected the decision to break up and tried NC to either just move on or give her time to resolve her ex issues. Cut long story short she wouldnt leave me alone saying how much she missed me etc, and we ended up seeing each other on and off for round 2 months. In this time we werent officially back together, and it became obvious she was still seeing her ex which really hurt and made me extremely jealous. Over the new year shes met someone new and told me few days ago. Just feeling pretty awful and pathetic right now that i actually fell for this girl and that shes moved on already from me and probably her other ex too, and now will be able to fall in love with this new guy. Basically i was a stepping stone. Even though it was rebound it was all very confusing because she kept telling me she had genuine feelings for me, made her happy and really wanted us to work. I know time will fix this but right now im not even sleeping or eating properly. Anyone with similar experiences or thoughts would be very welcome.
Art_Critic Posted January 8, 2011 Posted January 8, 2011 Try and keep yourself busy and things will get better.. also try no to dwell to much on it as you will just feel down about it all. Sorry about what you are going thru.. breakups suck.... I would try and get right back on that horse..ask someone else out and go have a fun time..
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