MarlyStar Posted January 8, 2011 Posted January 8, 2011 I went out this evening line dancing with a group of friends, mixed men and women. And on the way home, I got angry. "We should discuss that over a drink." "Ok". "There's a new place up the street, we should stop by after work and get a drink." "Sounds fun." "Thanks for coming to the picnic with me, sorry about Ron, let me take you out for a drink." "I'd enjoy that." "The food here is sad. We need to go out to lunch, I know this place..." "Sure, I'd like to do that." Me: "I'll bring in the info on XXX tomorrow." Him: "Is it something we can discuss over drinks." "Sure." Him: "Drop off those cruise brochures at my office and if you want, I'll take you to a late lunch." "That sounds great." Said on a Thursday, "Before you leave for Thanksgiving Wednesday, I'd like to take you for a drink." "Ok" "What days are you taking off for Xmas? I need to take you for a holiday drink." "Sounds like a great way to kick off Xmas. I'm leaving Friday morning, that leaves Tuesday, Wed, or Thursday." "We'll discuss it over lunch, are you going downstairs at 11:30?" "Yes." (it was never brought up). Then yesterday: "You got free time, are you going to be around the next couple weeks. Want to go for a drink?" "Sure, I have lots of free time, I'd like that, pick a date." "What's your phone numbers?" (he has two of them, but I give him a third as well). "Where do you live." (I tell him). But no 'pick a date'. And I go out tonight and see a bunch of people who managed to pick a date and get together for a frigging drink. WHAT THE HECK IS THIS MAN DOING? If he's gun shy, why even ask? If he's not into me, why bring up the idea of going for a drink or lunch at all? Why not just eat a quick lunch with me or stay away? I decided on the way home. No more going downstairs for lunch. He won't see me again unless he calls one of those three numbers he asked for. But I still want to know WTF he's thinking? What kind of game is this?
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