OOReeee Posted January 8, 2011 Posted January 8, 2011 Hello fellow LoveShackers, My story is as follows: Met a girl a few weeks after i moved to a new city. We Dated for about 7 weeks. We were together pretty much all the time for about 4-5 weeks, then there was a decline, where she expressed no interest in my well-being and we kinda went from 60 to 0, which made me upset. At the same time, she was(and still is) going through a lot, a hormonal treatment, excessive diet, problems with her family and friends, and I was caught in the middle. Throughout the short relationship, we both shared a lot of facts about ourselves that we have never told anyone else. We broke up 2 nights ago. She told me she is going through a lot and needs to figure things out without being in a relationship for once (before me she was in a 2-year relat., before that 5, both pretty abusive...). I feel like she needs me, not as a bf but as a friend. I sincerely believe that no one else will be there for her (I know her friends). I usually go NC, after break ups. I still miss her a whole lot, it's been 2 days. I want to be there for her but I'm afraid the feelings I still have will be in the way. I thought about writing her a letter saying that I will be there for her despite us not being together, that we should maybe be friends. What should I do?
bonerman Posted January 8, 2011 Posted January 8, 2011 You know, I come on this site for help. I come looking for advice and such, but when I get here it's like everyone else needs advice just as much as I do. I'm getting sick of reading this ****. It shouldn't be this hard to find happiness. Nothing I can do but keep reading it though. Sorry for hijacking your thread. I'd say let her deal with whatever. Move on with your life. If you meant as much to her as she does to you then you wouldn't have typed this.
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