bsilmb Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 ok, so I'm in hs. sophomore. and there's these two girls. so I guess it's two-itis. I can't ****ing help but be drawn to them. maybe it's my crazy puberty hormones or something, but no matter what girls I flirt with, I get drawn back to these two. ALL I want to know is how can I get one of them!!? I know oneitis ain't good, but I've gotta at least give this a shot or Im just gonna stay like this. so here's the background. girl 1 is cool, and pretty. she is pretty much an alpha female in a chicks body, no joke. she does this cocky funny stuff, then will slow to reply my texts. she's natural I guess. we kinda were getting close and I thought I was gonna date her back in September-October, but shirlt happened and we didn't talk a whole lot til december. we started to text some and talked almost daily in class. she will always use kino, usually playful punching or patting me or even running into me with her whole body lol. problem is, my friend says she's kinda flirty like that; we both have noticed depsite her flirtiness, she never seems to have a boyfriend. I'm like one of two guys in the class we have, but she seems to give me more attention. it's really tough to read her. she sent a text a few weeks ago kinda about why I hadn't talked to her and she seemed a little sad that I hadn't. then she talked to me about what guys mean when they do things like not talk to you and some **** which kinda made it sound like she was talking about me. I kinda let it go and things are cool. lately she seems a little more femenine with me. she seems to talk softer and stuff like MAYBE she's trying to attract me? she asks for help on things she probably knows the answer to. it may sound like she likes me but she's tough to read so I might have to go for a date in an interesting way. just suggest she go somewhere I'm going maybe? so that's girl 1, she's a sophomore like me. ok girl 2 is slightly more talkative to me than girl 1, but I don't have girl 2's number. she's a junior and I think KINDA has a boyfriend. not sure how serious they are. anyway, she talks to me on a regular basis and uses kino, touching, patting me, and generally trying to be closer to me. she smiles and laughs at a lot ofthings I say. she is really easy to talk to and get along with. she likes my taste in music and what not. she even goes out of her way to say hi to me in the halls even when she's with a friend. I feel like she could be a really cool girlfriend, but there's so many factors. she's got a bf, she's older. for all I know, she does this **** all the time. just due to her mystery, I kinda feel like girl 1 is my best bet. I don't think I've necessarily been friendzoned by girl 1, but I try not to text her too long or anything, so I can help stay more mysterious. I'm always cocky funny around her and sarcastic. I think I'm more alpha around her than any other girls, but I'm getting better. please don't flame me just cuz I want these two girls. I know it's stupid and goes against pick up, but I gotta try! especially girl 1. I'll start to like a girl, and be getting close to getting a date or something, then I think about girl 1 and just stay friends with the girl I like. she's too cool to not try to get. so now that you got the layout, what ALL should I do to get this girl? I want every little detail of what I'm gonna need to do to get her. please don't give a short little answer, this really is important to me. I need to know how to act, and what actions to take to end up with her. I can tell there's a little sexual tension between us, I just need to get this. I know some things about pick up, but I'm gonna need a gameplan for this. so thank you so much in advance!
bonerman Posted January 8, 2011 Posted January 8, 2011 I don't know what to tell you. Every time I have a girl picked out she turns out to not like me.
Jynxx Posted January 8, 2011 Posted January 8, 2011 Take a step back. Girl 1 is playing you, testing you. This will **** with your head. She's not nearly as much into you as you think she is, she just likes to know she has options. Stay away from this girl, for you own health. Believe me, I know what I'm talking about. Girl 2, well, it seems like you have friend zoned her. Move along, nothing to see here. Also, if you want pickup advice you have chosen the forum to do it in very very badly.
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