Owz600 Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 It's been 9 days since me and my ex broke up, it was mutual and she wanted to stay friends by saying ' your my cinema buddy ill get in touch in the new year', today she commented on my facebook status saying 'That made me laugh x' it's the first time she has got in touch even though we have both been online a lot. What does this mean? Do I respond? How? I love this girl, she is my best friend but in the last 6 months it got boring and I was unhappy due to my job and I had no interest in anything. I am working on fixing those problems by getting involved with me friends, picking up my hobbies and finding a new job. Would replying now be too soon? Because I believe I need another week to find myself. I really want to chance everything and get back with this girl and if she is willing then I would love to meet up with her again but only when things have changed in my life.
SDA Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 I wouldn't necessarily say that is breaking NC. I would ignore it and wait for a more direct contact like a text, phone call, or email. I think this comment is more of a friendly thing. I wouldn't get your hopes up just yet. Keep NC for now.
Author Owz600 Posted January 8, 2011 Author Posted January 8, 2011 Ok cheers guys. There has been positive things since our break up, it's made me focus on 'ME' I have been unhappy for the past year but I am sorting myself out by finding my hobbies, friends, finding a new job as I hate my current job and following my dream of being in a band. I am also considering applying for University studying marketing or Business, I am a creative person and I would love to build my own business one day but not sure in yet what.
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