tjh001 Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 Would you even consider going out with me or am I too unattractive? http://imagebin.org/index.php?mode=image&id=131401
Hazel_eyes Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 Your statement makes me think that maybe you have somewhat of a confidence issue. The link didn't work, but don't be quite so worried about your looks. Yes I think you should try to look your best, but don't think that just cause you aren't the most gorgeous dude in the world doesn't mean you don't have a chance at a wonderful girl. I've had guys who were stunning to look at interested in me, but they were so shallow and demeaning to others that I was repulsed by them. I dated a guy that about 70lbs overweight, had acne, and wasn't the most handsome guy around. But he was so darn funny, sweet, and confident that I couldn't help but find him attractive. Trust me, if you are confident and believe you are something special (but not arrogant) someone else will think so as well.
carhill Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 http://imagebin.ca/img/Q-jOmc.jpg That's from his other thread. All three have essentially talked about the same thing. Just another normal guy with lousy success with the ladies. In another lifetime he'll figure out it really doesn't matter.
Knittress Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 Most folks only care if you're 'attractive enough' and then consider dating you based on your other qualities. You're attractive enough! So stop screwing this up by being anxious over it.
donnamaybe Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 Okay, OP, in the link Carhill posted, you look like a nice enough guy to catch a gal's eye, but you have kind of a "poor me" look on your face. Perhaps that's the problem...
Jazzari Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 I think you're very attractive. But you need confidence and the ability to kick back and have fun. Get that, and you will be miles ahead of the competition.
Star Gazer Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 Are those really dark circles, or just shadows?
Seamless74 Posted January 8, 2011 Posted January 8, 2011 Dont listen to these well intentioned posters.......... being nice = zero positive feedback and no growth.. Get on the personal development plan fast.. Every picture tells a story and outside of the fact that you actually posted one here (which says everything in and of itself) you need to hit the weights get a personal style (which is a journey in and of itself) Put some major thought into your hairstlye (your current one will not cut it) shaved would even look better.. Lots of work to do homey... I sincerely recommend styleforum.net for anyone remotely interested in getting educated on clothing and style.. good luck and godspeed
Jazzari Posted January 8, 2011 Posted January 8, 2011 Dont listen to these well intentioned posters.......... being nice = zero positive feedback and no growth.. Get on the personal development plan fast.. Every picture tells a story and outside of the fact that you actually posted one here (which says everything in and of itself) you need to hit the weights get a personal style (which is a journey in and of itself) Put some major thought into your hairstlye (your current one will not cut it) shaved would even look better.. Lots of work to do homey... I sincerely recommend styleforum.net for anyone remotely interested in getting educated on clothing and style.. good luck and godspeedI totally disagree. A self obsessed metrosexual guy who is all about hairstyle and clothing is a total turn off for many women. I personally prefer a more rugged manly look. Long hair is in style, btw - shaved would be horrible!
KraftDinner Posted January 8, 2011 Posted January 8, 2011 Jazzari is right -- shaved heads are so over.
carhill Posted January 8, 2011 Posted January 8, 2011 Jazzari is right -- shaved heads are so over. LOL, mine's permanent so it is what it is. So, OP, any feedback here? LS is a two-way portal.
Seamless74 Posted January 8, 2011 Posted January 8, 2011 well congratulations your both wrong... so bad hairstyles are in?? didnt know that..
threebyfate Posted January 8, 2011 Posted January 8, 2011 Your realize that your face won't break if you smile, right? I agree about the haircut and a better shirt. How about a plain coloured shirt in a primary colour that suits you? Versatile without being flamboyant or offensive, not that your striped shirt is offensive or anything. It just looks a bit dated. You have nice features. If you worked out your jawline would probably get a bit more muscular and defined, which in my opinion is attractive in a man. But then, you're also so much younger than I am, so your female audience might not have the same requirements.
AverageJoe Posted January 8, 2011 Posted January 8, 2011 well congratulations your both wrong... so bad hairstyles are in?? didnt know that.. Sir, you clearly are not aware of the Justin Bieber impalement on recent society.
Seamless74 Posted January 8, 2011 Posted January 8, 2011 yeah true.. lol.. thank god.. At least my generation had like David Cassidy u know? this Beiber guy jeez...
Author tjh001 Posted January 8, 2011 Author Posted January 8, 2011 Or it does if you copy and paste it rather than clicking on it.
AverageJoe Posted January 8, 2011 Posted January 8, 2011 yeah true.. lol.. thank god.. At least my generation had like David Cassidy u know? this Beiber guy jeez... He had good hair. This Bieber...ugh. A friend of mine said she thought he was cute. The Chris Hanson voice went off in my head: What are you doing here...why don't you have a seat over there.
Seamless74 Posted January 8, 2011 Posted January 8, 2011 yeah totally bro lol,,, Sir Ive got the transcripts right here... "You said your kinda young i might get in trouble if anybody found out"
Eeyore79 Posted January 8, 2011 Posted January 8, 2011 You're cute; you remind me of a guy I used to have a crush on when I was your age. You really have nothing to worry about with regard to your looks.
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