Vickstar Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 Right so ive been apart from my ex bf for about 3 months (he ended it), i have good days and bad days, on the good days i get on with everyday life, he pops into my head now and then but im cool with it and im happy. The bad days i think about him alot, missing him, wondering what hes doing, but i do try and focus on other things to get him out of my mind, is it good to try and fight the daydreaming and focus on something else or do u think i should just let it happen naturally and eventually one day i will be over him? xx
SimonSerenade Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 I'm like that at the moment, Been about 5 months without her, Some days I wake up happy and have a half decent day, Think of her sometime's but quickly fob it off and forget about it but on day's like today, I just miss her and long for her so much, I geuss this is just the process were going through, I think we'll have more good days than bad to come and before too long they'll be a memory as will this pain, I hope and pray that day comes fast.
J0N Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 Right so ive been apart from my ex bf for about 3 months (he ended it), i have good days and bad days, on the good days i get on with everyday life, he pops into my head now and then but im cool with it and im happy. The bad days i think about him alot, missing him, wondering what hes doing, but i do try and focus on other things to get him out of my mind, is it good to try and fight the daydreaming and focus on something else or do u think i should just let it happen naturally and eventually one day i will be over him? xx I am the same way (3 Months of NC); I think that you are on track for success. The only way to get over somebody is to go NC and get on with your life. It is really tough at first, but over time I have noticed her beginning to fade. I do have some times where she comes into my mind and sticks, and NYE really really sucked too but things are getting better. I read on another post somebody saying that not going NC and staying friends with an ex is like trying to keep your dog after it dies. Little tidbits like that help me to stay strong. I have had really strong urges lately to contact her, just to see how she is doing and what’s going on in her life but I know that doing this will only put me back at square one. Stay strong! This will pass.
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