Owz600 Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 Whats the big things to show your ex you changed? Plus on Facebook should I keep posting status's? Does this show I have a life or does it simply say look I am bored without you and it isn't interesting? Since we broke up we both been posting more than ever and I have never seen her online so much. I think's it's both our way of checking up. It's bad I know and I have been trying to block her site so I can't view it but I can't simple delete her because I have no idea how she will feel.
Rose T Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 Whats the big things to show your ex you changed? Plus on Facebook should I keep posting status's? Does this show I have a life or does it simply say look I am bored without you and it isn't interesting? Since we broke up we both been posting more than ever and I have never seen her online so much. I think's it's both our way of checking up. It's bad I know and I have been trying to block her site so I can't view it but I can't simple delete her because I have no idea how she will feel. Hi. I have to say I defriended my ex the day after he dumped me and recently blocked him as well, so he doesn't see my chat / posts to mutual friends. I am really busy on Facebook because it's useful when you're single to catch up with people and develop new friendships, right? But I think it's cooler if he doesn't know my business, personally and I'd prefer to be mysterious. (And I don't want him to think it's for his benefit). I also blocked him on Skype and when we were briefly in contact shortly after the break-up he seemed a bit offended about that. I know you don't want to go there, but if you think there's some facebook one-upmanship going on, and you defriend / block her, that's going to get her wondering much more IMHO...
angie08 Posted January 9, 2011 Posted January 9, 2011 If you want them back then blocking them or unfriending them without warning/explanation sounds like game-playing. If it's annoying you then either change your settings so they don't appear in your 'feed' or tell them straight that you're blocking them because you need time to yourself and you hope they're not offended. The 'big things' are really a personal thing so if you want to start a new sport or lose weight now is the time to do it
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