ame Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 hey, my bf dumped me a month ago during a heated row, i begged for him to take me back he said he would think about it but i made the mistake of asking his mum to sort it out.... i have been applying the no contact for 16 days now cuz i want him to realise what he had, well he has contacted me twice on messenger asking me how i am and random questions so im replying politly but not showing much interest in him. is it a good sign that he keeps contacting me? i wish he would phone. i want him back because i love him deeply so if ur gonna write anything nasty please dont waste your time,
valdeetz1 Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 It sounds like he's feeling you out to see if he still has you interested to me. It depends on his intentions. Some guys just get a high knowing that got someone waiting on them. I could be wrong- it really depends on his age and other factors. You guys sound like you might be young (teens or early 20's). I'm not sure what the row was about, but I hope you guys sorted it out. I wish you luck though. Sorry if this isnt helpful at all.
Dorian85 Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 hey, my bf dumped me a month ago during a heated row, i begged for him to take me back he said he would think about it but i made the mistake of asking his mum to sort it out.... i have been applying the no contact for 16 days now cuz i want him to realise what he had, well he has contacted me twice on messenger asking me how i am and random questions so im replying politly but not showing much interest in him. is it a good sign that he keeps contacting me? i wish he would phone. i want him back because i love him deeply so if ur gonna write anything nasty please dont waste your time, I gotta agree with the above posting on this one. He could just be sending out friendly "safe" conversation to make sure that the two of you are at least still on speaking terms. And since you have been replying, he now knows that at the very least, you are communicating. This could be because he is still trying to keep you at an arms length. Or that he does want some type of reconciliation. If you guys broke up over ONE fight, he may be having second thoughts about pulling the trigger on breaking up with you and is now reaching out for an eventual encounter. Even still, I would proceed with caution in this scenario. Its always tough to judge what the ex really is contacting you for...that is unless the come right out and say it lol. good luck.
Leandro Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 It sounds like he's feeling you out to see if he still has you interested to me. It depends on his intentions. Some guys just get a high knowing that got someone waiting on them. I could be wrong- it really depends on his age and other factors. You guys sound like you might be young (teens or early 20's). I'm not sure what the row was about, but I hope you guys sorted it out. I wish you luck though. Sorry if this isnt helpful at all. I agree with valdeetz. But you know that the purpose for using NC is to heal and move on. I'm not trying to be mean or nasty here. You got hurt and I don't want to see you get hurt again because NC didn't "work". You know?
I have no title Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 I suggest you remove him from your messenger, and then see if he contacts you. It is very easy for him to see you online and write something to you, cause he probably knows you're still dying after him... It is way harder to contact a person through telephone, cause then he has to call, show that he cares, has to hear your voice, and usually they don't have the balls to do that. Remove him from everywhere, let him REALIZE that he lost you, and dont let yourself to be played so easily.
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