Owz600 Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 It's day 8 and I am still a mess, it's hard loosing your best friend. I still have hope which is bad though as when we was braking up she said 'we should meet up in the New year to go to the cinema as you are my cinema buddy'. Today I feel guilty. I saw that she had been talking with an ex of hers and they was getting a bit flirty, anyway I decided to message a friend who is a girl asking if she is ok as she is ill, well this girl likes me and she has been flirting on my facebook page, I don't know how this would look to my ex. I want her back as she is a huge part of my life and It just doesn't feel like it's the end of our relationship, we just both need to sort our lives out. How will it make her feel seeing a girl she knows likes me posting on my facebook and being a bit flirty. I know I should delete my ex off facebook but atm I can't, I am not ready for that.
Stilicho Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 i feel for you man, losing your best friend is never easy, i just broke up with my girlfriend of over 2 years, and i feel the same way. It felt as if the ground was pulled from beneath my feet. ive been keeping lc, which has helped sometimes, but also hurt at others, so i think i will be going back into NC after tomorrow. just stay strong, and know that once soon youre going to be a stronger person bc of this.
Karma20 Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 If you guys aren't together then it doesn't matter what she thinks. She's flirting with her ex, why should you still not do want you want when she's obviously doing what she wants
Karma20 Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 The quicker you delete her off fb the better it will be. Having her on their seeing what she's doing is only prolonging your healing.
Author Owz600 Posted January 6, 2011 Author Posted January 6, 2011 I know. Facebook seems to be my final tie which I can't break. It's my way of checking on her and seeing how she is doing and what she is up to. All I want to do is spend time with her, just being in her presence makes me happy. I don't want to block her on facebook because I don't want her to get the wrong impression. I have tried blocking her page using web site blocking so she wouldn't know but it's more difficult than first thought on a mac as administrator account because you can't set yourself parental controls as you are meant to be the parent lol...
D78 Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 Owz600, I know you're not ready to delete her from your FB. I hear you that it's comforting to see her. I just wanted to say you can do it. I thought I wouldn't have the strength to delete him, because I wouldn't know what he was doing and then he would be really out of my life. When I did it, it felt good. I don't think I actually started to get better until I deleted him. Plus, on a practical side, would you rather her delete you? It seems like that might be worse. Good luck.
Leandro Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 Owz600, I know you're not ready to delete her from your FB. I hear you that it's comforting to see her. I just wanted to say you can do it. I thought I wouldn't have the strength to delete him, because I wouldn't know what he was doing and then he would be really out of my life. When I did it, it felt good. I don't think I actually started to get better until I deleted him. Plus, on a practical side, would you rather her delete you? It seems like that might be worse. Good luck. You copied what i was going to say. Mind reader. Owz600, it takes some strength to delete her. But after you do it you will fell much stronger. It's just 3 or 4 clicks away. You can do it.
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