Dox Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 I met this girl at high school, we became friends she gave me her number and i started texting her a lot. At first I only thought of her as a friend but as I got to know her, I started to like her, and I thought she liked me too. After a few weeks texting eachother I made a mistake of telling her I liked her through text. In my defence I only told her through text because I never see her, as we just graduated from highschool and its summer here now. So, after I told her, she never replied. This happened over a month ago and I havnt texted her once since then. Just really sad because before this we would text eachother almost everyday about anything, we would text about eachother's day etc.. Our other means of communication is through facebook, and again before i told her we would chat a lot on fb, comment on eachothers status etc.. and that almost died too... for the first 2 weeks it was awkward we didnt chat at all but now its gotten better but it wasnt what it used to be. When we do talk on facebook we act like nothing happened and its defferent its not like what it used to be. Just to be clear we really are friends, not like weve just met once. We all used to hang out together with other friends. But this summer I only saw her once and that was before the mistake that I freakin made. I still do have feelings for her, I think about her constantly and to be honest it does hurt. Im not really that kind of guy who shares this kind of stuff to his friends so thats why Im here. I am taking her not replying a rejection but I still have that hope/thought that I could still have her as I didnt really get a reply. But the guys she talks to on facebook and text is really putting me off and making me jealous. My real question is after reading this post do you think I still have a chance?
PegNosePete Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 It's not a mistake to tell someone you like them. Even over text. But sorry, she obviously does not feel the same way as you do. It wouldn't have been any different if you'd said it face to face. Now if you want to remain friends you will have to get over that and move on.
creighton0123 Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 Seriously... am I that old that I fail to see the benefit in texting as a primary form of communication? I would recommend you move on. If you do move on, text a little less and pick up the phone a little more.
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