OOReeee Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 Another relationship with a girl who has far more problems than anyone should ever have. Another relationship where I am sucked into spending a lot of time with her because it's just a lot of fun. Another relationship where she reveals her true self all of a sudden. Another relationship where I am finding myself suffering from her freezing shoulder. But this time, I saw the red flags and said something. It led to our break-up. It's gonna be hard without her, she was still a huge part of my life. But I think I did the right thing, she would have treated me terribly, I would have been miserable. I just hope that somewhere, there is someone for me. I hope.
welikeincrowds Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 (edited) You did it, man. I'm proud of you! You've shown real courage, and commitment toward becoming the sort of person who will only tolerate the good and healthy things one deserves in life. And if you ever need reassurance, just skim through your past threads and get a sense of how miserable this was making you! Edited January 6, 2011 by welikeincrowds Oh and uh, ignore my signature
GooseChaser Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 It's good to hear that you took action and stood up for yourself. Well done. It sounds like you're taking good lessons from the experience, so hopefully that will be helpful to you in the future!
Author OOReeee Posted January 6, 2011 Author Posted January 6, 2011 Thanks, now I need to learn how to not repeat what I did in the past after a relationship like that: How not to resent that person. Any advice?
creighton0123 Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 Thanks, now I need to learn how to not repeat what I did in the past after a relationship like that: How not to resent that person. Any advice? Absolutely. Change your mode of thought. Instead of thinking of the time you two spent together as a relationship that failed, think of it as a relationship that ended successfully. You had good times. You had bad times. You loved. You lost. It is more important to have loved - since that has allowed you to learn. Don't resent her. Move forward wanting the two of you to be happy in life.
samspade Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 Another relationship with a girl who has far more problems than anyone should ever have. Another relationship where I am sucked into spending a lot of time with her because it's just a lot of fun. Another relationship where she reveals her true self all of a sudden. Another relationship where I am finding myself suffering from her freezing shoulder. 1. If she has that many problems, she wasn't right for you, bro. 2. Don't allow yourself to get sucked in. Temper your time together. It's your choice; she's not making you do it. Classic pitfall. 3. Any woman's (or man's) true self won't be shown until many months have passed. That's just the way it is. 4. Suffering? Be happy. She won't be bothering you with her problems any more. Good luck man. She did you a favor. Learn and apply. Also - there is no "one." Don't buy into that myth.
Author OOReeee Posted January 6, 2011 Author Posted January 6, 2011 I hope it'll be fine. I'll probably join a theatre class or something.
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