rrobbie Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 hi i got romantic with a friend of 10yrs we got on well and now she hates me i text her acting needy and she wont reply how do i forget about her i didnt mean to fall in love it just happened it was going well then she said im not her type im so sad that our 10yr friendship is ruined she was always the girl i talked to about breakups and made me feel better now the breakup is over her i have nothing left i feel so bad crashed my car today cause i was not thinking clearly i cant even go to gym as she was my gym buddy so iam total miserable i just want her to talk to me again as the old friendship means so much i text or call but never get a reply she was suicidal was i her rebound ?? it hurt and i just cant get over it i held her in hospital comforting her when she was crying i fell in love and now i hurt we did arugue when she ended it and i said some mean things like i cant be ur friend and still snuggle while u slut around i was angry and hurt and didnt mean to say that it just hurt that i went through all her pain when she was sick and cared and gave her support and she just switches off like i dont exist yes im heartbroken and am obsessed i dont know if its over love or over the friendship i just cant let go it i need her support cuase im so down and misserable now i was always there for her and i just cant deal with how she can switch it all off i could alway tell her anything and we never jugded each other she has been very promiscuous in the past though she had over 50 guys and ex hubby and ive only had 3 girls im almost 40 and feel ill be alone for ever every ones married exept me why do i fall and cant get back up
health Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 Don't be down on yourself. Improve your self image and forget her. Promiscuous? 50 dudes? That makes me vomit. Run away from her and find a good girl. You're like angelic and good hearted - you don't need to deal with these crap people - go out, exercise and meet new people. Go no contact and see a concilr as to the self esteem issues.
health Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 You have the power to change your love life! This is the beggining of finding your 4th woman! lol - The right one for you! You know how many chicks are gonna like that you haven't shared yourself with just anyone? Get that self respect back!
Author rrobbie Posted January 6, 2011 Author Posted January 6, 2011 (edited) it just sucks that she used our friendship as a rebound she told me all the nice things to make me feel special and i feel for her i was warned by mates and her bro not to get involved but it just happened she in my circle of friends which sux its doing my head in that she is a bed hopper she cant be alone she has nervous breakdowns when she alone i wish i could be hot and flirty like her but ive never picked up in a club or anything seen her do it 100s of times and now i thought she was ready to settle and she said she wanted to be with me and live with me my relationships just happen and not very often and now it even harder to meet women the older i get i just miss our freindship more than anything and i used to be the one to avoid all her drama somehow the table have turned i wish i was thinking with my D*ck it would be so much easier but my heart got involved this time around i feel ill never find a beautiful women again the all my male and female friends cant see why as they say im the best looking guy in the group but i dont think that never had ( i was asked to model when i was 20's but i freaked out and got shy) and im quite fussy and shy in public but when im alone with a girl im different they girls ive been with cant believe why im so shy in social setting but one one im very confidant and talk about anything then i get clingy or devote to them too much but every girl i break up with kills my mojo its like that take a bit of my soul away i have to get back to the gym soon its been 3 months and i used to go 6 days a week:( it sad as she was my gym and martial arts partner i knwo she wont go back as she dated the instructor for a yr and rebounded to me as soon as i said he as new gf she didnt want to know me i want to find miss right and settle down im self employed have a home am healthy but i theres that part thats missing Edited January 6, 2011 by rrobbie
Author rrobbie Posted January 6, 2011 Author Posted January 6, 2011 what sort of counciling do i look for i once went to a shrink and they gave me adhd pills been off them for yrs as they didnt do much exept make speedy i do want to get confidant and be the life of the party like my brother is maybe i should take up drinking im the tall athetic shy one and hes the fat little confident one
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