shayan Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 For those of you reading this right now, suffering from a world of pain like I was months ago, know that it only get's better. But you go to want to let go, you got to want to not care, you got to want to stop loving that person. Until you want it your wound won't heal. No contact absolutely no contact until you're healed. I've come a long way and I'd like to say one thing, I always avoided watching 500 days of summer because my ex told me it reminded her of the way we were together. I thought I'd wait and watch it with my wife and kids but I realized tonights it's time to see it and move on with my life. so keep that train rolling y'all.
carhill Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 hey, I still laugh at 'War of the Roses' just like I did when I was married; a movie which my exW hated; a movie about a crazed divorce. I would've killed to piss on her fish Glad to read the healing has gone well. We were final about two months ago. Sanity has returned. Life is good.
GreenPolicy Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 2.5 months past breakup. The last few days I have started to have the first feelings of "Hey I feel okay, I'm not there yet, but I'm gonna make it" go through my head. But I know that recovery is a series of stops and starts and I still have a lot of bad days ahead. I still feel this ache and still think about her too much. I still hurt a lot. But I'm making a lot of progress. I've made some tangible progress on some things I set out to do.
Author shayan Posted January 6, 2011 Author Posted January 6, 2011 keep going, keep growing your gonna your gonna do it. your gonna ****in do it I know it, and you're going to be so strong afterwards like goshdarn steel pillar surrounded by diamonds reinforced by platinum built with bonds strongers then the strong nuclear force.
Author shayan Posted January 6, 2011 Author Posted January 6, 2011 I just got finished wacthing the movie and a grown 22 year old just cried. but it's so true. we move on, we heal, we love again.
Author shayan Posted January 6, 2011 Author Posted January 6, 2011 guys I wacthed the film and I felt an awakening. At first all the old memories came back word for word, word for word. And then some voice said no. I **** you not it said no, and light came and I realized that part of me is now dead and gone. Only remnants and fragments of old memories remain now. you will awaken from this pain it will come once you are ready, the teachers will come, the lesson will come, the coincidence will be made, and you will overcome your loss. And grow, growww.
D78 Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 Shayan, Glad to hear you are feeling better. Thank you for the encouragement. 22 Days of Summer is a great movie if you can get through the sad part. I cried, too
SeriousBob12 Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 I watched 500 days like 2 weeks after my breakup and was so moved that I watched it again almost immediately after (I did go for a smoke). It is such a fantastic movie. I would suggest it to anyone, but I think someone coming out of a breakup can REALLY relate. I found swingers as an all time fav post-breakup movie too. Glad to hear things are going well for you in your recovery! Keep on chugging through!
D78 Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 Shayan, Glad to hear you are feeling better. Thank you for the encouragement. 22 Days of Summer is a great movie if you can get through the sad part. I cried, too 22 days of summer probably wouldn't be a very moving film... I think I meant 500 days I didn't want to cause a bunch of folks confusion at the Redbox.
Byren Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 I watched that a couple of days after my breakup... it's so damn close to how I was feeling. Very moving stuff, but good to know that others have gone through the same things that I was/am feeling.
cerridwen Posted January 9, 2011 Posted January 9, 2011 For those of you reading this right now, suffering from a world of pain like I was months ago, know that it only get's better. But you got to want to let go, you got to want to not care, you got to want to stop loving that person. Until you want it your wound won't heal. This is so very true. Even with no intention on restarting things I haven't emotionally let go. I don't contact him. I don't fantasize about getting back together. I don't consider the break up a loss, but I still haven't let go. I don't know why. I don't think many people here have either.
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