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How to go about making first move on ex.....what if it flops?


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So my ex and I have been talking for the past 2 weeks. She has agreed to meet my friend and I in vegas for the weekend, she's bringing her friend too and they'll be staying at my house. All signs are good, she texted me today how she missed how funny I was and joked around about some things we used to laugh about. All in all things are looking good, I can't differentiate whether she wants to be just friends or more, but all things considered......she's coming to stay with me, the house is 5 rooms, I assume she'll stay in one of the other rooms at least upon arrival but let's say I make a move tom and it fails....she'll prob go back to LA right? What should I look for or say before making that first move

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Look for whatever signals of interest you saw the first time around.

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Depends on the situation dude. Is this the girl from back in December 08? If she broke up with you then leave it to her to make a move on you. She may just simply miss hanging out with you as a friend and want nothing more (ask yourself can you handle being just a friend?). If this is another girl and you broke it off with her and she's keen to come along then I'd still let the dust settle a bit before making a move.

 

Either way I'd take it really slow, you don't want to be that guy she knows she can can just hang with when she wants something then on a whim cast you aside when she finds someone new.

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