Man, sometimes I feel like I'm obsessed with my ex. !

[health]

We've been broken up now for 2 years.

I did n/c for most of that time.

 

I've been with 3 other girls since.

 

Today someone from my past triggered a conversation about her.

 

I started looking our photos and her facebook. - She's with the same guy she rebounded with -

 

I feel numb. I don't know what to think. Like it's almost comfortable. I thought we were perfect, but it's like she's moved on and I haven't.

 

I told my sister and she said in a mean way I have severe mental problems which bothered me.

 

I will be seeing a counicllor soon - the goal was to get her out of my head - but no one I've been with has been like her.

 

The goal is to stop looking or thinking about her after getting triggered.

 

It just sucks when you are alone - finally find someone you love and loves you - for almost 6 years - then it just ends.

 

I will get through this.

[mgene15]

yea eventually. I haven't been broken up for nearly as long, but it's a deep pain none the less. the girl I'm seeing now is just not the same. It doesn't help that my ex was my first real love. So i hold her on this pedastool..

[health]

yea eventually. I haven't been broken up for nearly as long, but it's a deep pain none the less. the girl I'm seeing now is just not the same. It doesn't help that my ex was my first real love. So i hold her on this pedastool..

 

I see. That's what I did too - put her on that pedastle.

In reality she smoked, dropped out of high school, never worked.

In the long term - she's a disaster - I have to remind myself of that.

Love can blind you. I'm happy I dodged the bullet and know what I want going forward. Thanks for your reply man.

[EmperorR]

I know te feeling been almost 3 years, ex fiancé cheated and is still with te guy she left me for and now they are engaged, I've dated also but To no avail, I wish I could just erase her from my mind