mecoolhaha Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 There was this girl I saw at a party and she left as I came in. My friend told me her name. I added her on facebook and starting talking to her. We decide to hang out at her and my friends house. As she walks in I say Hello. and she says hi and walks right past and sits on another couch. I think that she was trying to avoid an awkward situation. We played games but really didn't look at me, but I got her to talk to me a little more as the night went on. Later that night we watched a movie and she was on the other couch with her friend, I guess that her friend was trying to get her to come over to me but I didn't notice. So after a while I said "someone should come over here" She doesn't look at me and starts talking with her friends. I go to the bathroom and her friends move away from her so I can sit next to her. We really didn't cuddle but we were close. She was also very tired. As I left she didn't even get up to give me a hug. I'm thinking she may have thought I was to shy, even though she wasn't being talkative either. Did I screw up at any part of this night?
creighton0123 Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 No, you didn't screw up. She could simply not be interested or was too tired to care. She may also not be looking for anything right now. Edit: A first "date" when one person is not aware that it is a date with a bunch of people at a friend's house is hardly romantic. Was there any expectation that she should cuddle because she's sitting on the same couch with someone she just met?
SilverLining Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 She's not interested in you that way. If she were, she would have come over near you or spent some time with you instead of ignoring you and talking to her friends. Simple as that. You weren't too shy and you did nothing wrong. Sometimes people don't click, best to find out sooner rather than later so you can find someone you DO click with.
Author mecoolhaha Posted January 6, 2011 Author Posted January 6, 2011 No, you didn't screw up. She could simply not be interested or was too tired to care. She may also not be looking for anything right now. Edit: A first "date" when one person is not aware that it is a date with a bunch of people at a friend's house is hardly romantic. Was there any expectation that she should cuddle because she's sitting on the same couch with someone she just met? She was also high, and it seemed like she was interested by the way she was talking to my brother about me. But hey is still worth a try texting her right??
Author mecoolhaha Posted January 6, 2011 Author Posted January 6, 2011 She's not interested in you that way. If she were, she would have come over near you or spent some time with you instead of ignoring you and talking to her friends. Simple as that. You weren't too shy and you did nothing wrong. Sometimes people don't click, best to find out sooner rather than later so you can find someone you DO click with. She wasn't ignoring me, just being shy and not to talkative. I can tell when a girl is but I didn't get that feeling.
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