missdependant Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 ah the confidence thing again:laugh: Height is a pretty huge deal to women http://abcnews.go.com/2020/story?id=123853&page=1 Wow, a link to a blog. Go you.
AD1980 Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 Wow, a link to a blog. Go you. It was done by a abc news reporter thats not some blog made by a kid in his moms basement
JaneDoe35 Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 People get rejected all the time......that isn't a bad thing. It is just part of the whole dating/relationship process. The reasons that people get rejected are so varied...... Get to know who you are, improve the parts of your personality which need improving. Choose wisely too. Physical attraction is vital but good looks get old quickly if there is no other connection.
AD1980 Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 Get to know who you are, improve the parts of your personality which need improving. Choose wisely too. Physical attraction is vital but good looks get old quickly if there is no other connection. But you need the looks part to get your foot in the door
carhill Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 It was done by a abc news reporter thats not some blog made by a kid in his moms basementAnd John Stossel is a pretty well-known and respected reporter, though this is a commentary piece. He's long married and pretty good looking
missdependant Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 It was done by a abc news reporter thats not some blog made by a kid in his moms basement Do you believe everything you read? That is a crock. You can't lump every woman together into a category and act like they ALL want the same exact thing. All women are different in what they want. MOST women want a man with confidence, regardless of their stature. However, there are hardly any women out there, besides maybe women dressed in leather who carry whips around who want a little bitch for a boyfriend. It doesn't matter how tall he is. Do you really think some woman who is 4'10 is going to care that the man she's with is 5'5?
missdependant Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 But you need the looks part to get your foot in the door One man who I find attractive, another woman may find unattractive and vice versa. Hell, I love asian men and most women don't like them at all unless they're asian. Quit acting like you know everything about every single woman in the world. There are too many people out there to act like there isn't someone for the OP.
AD1980 Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 Do you really think some woman who is 4'10 is going to care that the man she's with is 5'5? To be honest form what ive seen the really pettite girls are the ones who are the biggest height snobs and demand tall guys
missdependant Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 To be honest form what ive seen the really pettite girls are the ones who are the biggest height snobs and demand tall guys And what portion of the world have you seen? I'm 5 feet tall and happily married to a man who is 5'5. Do you really think his height is a big deal if I'm MARRIED to him?
ivalm Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 And what portion of the world have you seen? I'm 5 feet tall and happily married to a man who is 5'5. Do you really think his height is a big deal if I'm MARRIED to him? Clearly you're a masochist secretly wanting to marry someone who is 7' tall.
JaneDoe35 Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 The man that is interested in me presently is probably 5'5". He is great fun and I enjoy his company. I think he is actually way too good looking though. I am actually paranoid about this.......and might bail before I fall for him. I am looking for reasons. I guess what I am trying to say is that we are all so individual in what we find attractive and what we want in a partner. I guess we are shaped by our genetics and also our experiences. I believe the OP will have a date with this girl before too long.
missdependant Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 The man that is interested in me presently is probably 5'5". He is great fun and I enjoy his company. I think he is actually way too good looking though. I am actually paranoid about this.......and might bail before I fall for him. I am looking for reasons. I guess what I am trying to say is that we are all so individual in what we find attractive and what we want in a partner. I guess we are shaped by our genetics and also our experiences. I believe the OP will have a date with this girl before too long. Most people find someone, except people who aren't interested in a relationship. It really IS about confidence and being able to approach people without being fearful of rejection. People get rejected. It happens. People should quit worrying about it.
mo mo Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 The man that is interested in me presently is probably 5'5". He is great fun and I enjoy his company. I think he is actually way too good looking though. I am actually paranoid about this.......and might bail before I fall for him. I am looking for reasons. I guess what I am trying to say is that we are all so individual in what we find attractive and what we want in a partner. I guess we are shaped by our genetics and also our experiences. I believe the OP will have a date with this girl before too long. what??? why are u trying to bail?
JaneDoe35 Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 (edited) what??? why are u trying to bail? Fear of being hurt. Haven't got my confidence back yet. He wants to have children one day......I am 36 - what if I can't? He has a crazy high libido - I do not want him to miss out in the event that I can't really satisfy him. I am wary of those extra good looking men too. I just want to be EXTRA careful of who I become involved with. If I think that something may become an issue later - I am reluctant to go there. I appreciate that I will have to take a risk at some point otherwise I will be alone forever!!! Sorry OP - I have gone off-topic again....... Edited January 6, 2011 by JaneDoe35 Off Topic
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