someone1128 Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 (edited) Hello everyone I'm sure you guys hear this all the time.. But I'm new to this forum I just am a little thrown off. Okay here we go, I'll be A, and my girlfriend will be B. I've been with B for 2 years, we broke up and as much as we said we will not be all intimate with each other, we stayed exactly the same. 2 months go by, during that we still celebrated our 2 year, went to every single family event together. She just recently went out of town and couldn't stand how much she missed me so we got back together. She is back, and she was excited to be with me, everything was looking GREAT! But now the issue all started with our relationship being public.. she tells me she is worried if we don't work out, that she will be judged by all her friends. I think someone is in her ear telling her bad things, but the way I see it is, you should take your heart into consideration before what all your friends tell you. I don't see why someone should give a flying **** what their friends think, when in all reality they are kind of ****ty people. She said she is falling right back IN love with me (she never stopped loving me, I just see IN love and love different, ya know?) But she doesn't want to take it public yet. I'm not really sure how to tell her to follow her heart, I tried but she remains confused and I know she wants to be with me but just its a battle between everything(Friends, Afraid to get hut, safety) and her heart. I'm sure I just made a stupid ramble but for those capable of understand it, give me your opinion and what you think I should do please ? PS, I'm so deeply in love with this girl, even after 2 years I still have yet to question us. I'm 20, she is 18. Also what does NC mean ? Edited January 5, 2011 by someone1128 Keep seeing NC..
AlisaMarie Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 Hi Someone! Wow, so you two broke up, but never broke up? I really think you two need to sit down and talk. It's like she wants you, but doesn't want it "official." Don't let her use you while she pretends that she is single! You need to tell her it's official, or you're moving on to someone that's proud to be with you! NC means no contact.
Author someone1128 Posted January 5, 2011 Author Posted January 5, 2011 Thank you for the response, but I really don't believe she would cheat or be with anyone else. Just me and her friends don't really get along. I think its just her friends in her ears, and she doesn't want to hear their bull**** until she is totally comfortable with us being together, and for sure she wants that. Her friends really dislike me because they have tried to step in and give me ****, and I had to regulate, ya know? I know she is faithful, I love the girl, but I just wanted some outside advice. I just don't know how to make her understand her heart is more reliable then her ****ty friends, who always seem to be scandalous. And I'll ALWAYS be there for her before them, no if's ands or buts.
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