Colorless Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 Well let me give a quick rundown. Initially, we started dating in March 2010. It's been about almost a year now since we first started dating. Her and I fought a lot on the way to this point, often times about her thinking I was cheating or checking out other girls and stuff. (I never cheated on her though, but her suspicion comes from past cheaters, so it didn't matter that I wasn't a cheater). The problem is almost that we have started to see each other as a bit of friends due to the arguing and stuff, but neither of us want to just be friends. My own experience, as well as my psychologist has dictated that every relationship sees each other as friends at some point, and its natural to go through that phase, as he and his wife of 30 years did too. I just want to know some pointers how to move it past this stage along into passionate again. Like should I vocalize things like "you're sexy" and stuff more often, or is there something more meaningful I can do to help push us through this?
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