evilmonkey2008 Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 Been broken up for 3 months now from a 3 year relationship. It sucks as my ex dropped me, then slept with another guy and now is in a "loving relationship" with this guy. This has been my first major break up and im tired of just feeling like crap. Im holding the view new year, new start in my life. Hopefully i find someone new, but its just this over whelming feeling of crap im going through. I still love my ex, (even to what she did to me) and i know she doesnt give a **** about me and says she loves some one else. So what im trying to say has anyone been in this situation and come out better! - trying to find inspiration i guess. cheers
TaraMaiden Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 So what im trying to say has anyone been in this situation and come out better! - trying to find inspiration i guess. cheers It would be a more difficult question to answer if you were asking who here HASN'T been in this situation and come out better....! Read the NC guide in my signature (by Caliguy) and see that that does for you. Three months is a very short time to expect any major improvement. What are you actively doing, for yourself, to heal and move on? What's your programme....?
Author evilmonkey2008 Posted January 5, 2011 Author Posted January 5, 2011 well im trying my best, havent made contact! been seeing mates, working harder, going to the gym etc. But i cant get her out of my mind, the other day i had a major crash in my car completley wrote it off. Im not going to lie, i just didnt care about my self anymore, i didnt crash on purpose, but i just went round a corner to fast and lost control. To be honest im extreamly lucky to be alive and not broken anything as i rolled my car. Of course this going to cost me financally, just fed up with bad luck and all that ****
Hhhh Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 i know what you mean when constantly knock you down you feel like a higher power is ****ing you over you just got to take the hits and keep moving on. after my ex dropped me i lost my iphone 4 and other **** and i felt so crap because things just kept getting worse but we don't depend on our ex's to have a happy life STAY STRONG
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