Star Gazer Posted January 6, 2011 Posted January 6, 2011 Don't read what isn't there. I may not be expressing myself very well, and I apologise for that, but in fact my sympathies lie with both members of the relationship. make of it what you will. I know what I mean, and frankly, I rather hoped you'd know me better than to create such an impression of me. C'mon SG, Didn't you read the rest of the post? Where I said "There's nothing wrong with being a 'good time girl' either. But obviously, it wouldn't work in this situation, so it deserves to be discussed sooner than later!"....? Please don't misconstrue my intentions, you're a legal eagle. I think you know what's what when it's written. I read your words literally and took them at face value, and this explanation doesn't really help clarify. You said a gal's response shows whether she's a keeper and compassionate, or just a good time girl. I'm not sure how I'm misconstruing anything here. There are PLENTY of "keepers" who are compassionate and NOT "good time girls" who would not choose to be in this situation.
musemaj11 Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 How old are you? If you are young, then study hard and become successful. You will get more women than average men with a working penis.
Author quietGuy13 Posted January 7, 2011 Author Posted January 7, 2011 QUIET GUY thanks for your honesty and openess, and responses. You seem very open, and communicative about this, so I hope and pray you find a person, doc, forum, something that can help you with this. Outside of having sex or not, the pain thing is horrible. I have several severe pain disorders and living with them sucks, to say the least. But to mix the pain and the condition, tough. My heart goes out to you. I do believe in the practice of acceptance, as I must do it a lot too, but while in acceptance, hope is there that this issue will get better in time. Have you ever heard of EHLERS DANLOS SYNDROME??? Just curious... Hugs and I hope you heal in time, or find someone worthy of your time who can love you exactly for you, you deserve that. Thanks for your advice and thoughts. Sometimes i feel like crying but the good thing is i have hobbies and interests(art, etc) so if i do that at least i can forget about sexual thoughts etc..which just make me sad cause i can't even have sex. heheh, but then i like to draw girls/humans.. so it's tough. Yeah the pain is tough but what helps me is, that if i get hurt by doing alittle simple thing like rubbing, I know that it's not a new Horrible damage, the pain is just an indication that i irritated the old injury.. so when i think that, i just let the pain pass and then, in a day or 2, i'll feel better. and then after that i don't try any masturbation or nothing for days/weeks. anyways that's life. good thing today i got a letter from a penpal(girl) and i chatted with a girl online. Hehehe, that makes me happy. EHLERS DANLOS SYNDROME? Well no but i searched for it just now. Interesting. something about connective tissue right? Yeah i may have some problem with connective tissue cause everything in my body is breaking quite easily. Since year 2000 everything started breaking from doing simple everyday moves. everythig fro head to toe and serious injuries(knees etc) . and i just had to be the only one in a million to also have a broken penis. that sucks. In fact i'm the person that has the weirdest body in my whole family. So i guess i was born with something lik Ehlers,or Marfans.. **And to Eeyore, yeah i won't give up. Just that when i make new appointments with the urologists i always feel like i waste my 100 dollars cause they keep not believing me. I'll try a different route, i'm going with a sex therapists, see what she says. I don't know about circumcision now but if it gets bad i may have to consider that. but right now it's ok. I figured out a way to make the foreskin move. It's a good technique i found. Before i would try to pull it manually and that just huuuurt me soo bad. and i'm sure i would damage myself, so i came up with another technique which is basically the technique they tell people with Paraphimosis to do, which is basically to make the head shrink. And yeah i'll try to do something about the psychological problem.
creighton0123 Posted January 7, 2011 Posted January 7, 2011 Interesting. something about connective tissue right? Yeah i may have some problem with connective tissue cause everything in my body is breaking quite easily. Since year 2000 everything started breaking from doing simple everyday moves. everythig fro head to toe and serious injuries(knees etc) . and i just had to be the only one in a million to also have a broken penis. that sucks. In fact i'm the person that has the weirdest body in my whole family. So i guess i was born with something lik Ehlers,or Marfans.. Outside of relationship advice and sex, which you have gotten, you seem like you are working with some EXTREMELY unprofessional and unethical doctors. I mean REALLY REALLY REALLY, DANGEROUSLY unprofessional doctors. You say "So I guess I was born with something like Ehlers or Marfans" ... I come from a family that was plagued by Marfan Syndrome. My great grandmother, my two great aunts, my great uncle, my grandmother all died at early ages from Marfan related symptoms. My mother has Marfan Syndrome, the last person in our family with this debilitating disease. If there is even a chance that you have it and you're older than 21, there is absolutely no reason why your doctor should not have ordered genetic testing to confirm that you have the disease. You mentioned having problems with connective tissue. The primary symptom of Marfan Syndrome is the inability of connective tissue to repair itself. The organ most impacted by this is your heart. You need to get to a doctor as soon as you can. If a doctor suggested you have Marfans and did not confirm it through testing, that person does not in any way, shape, or form deserve to be a doctor. He should lose his license. As for your penis, look up and find some good specialists. If you suffered a penile fracture, there are both surgical and conservative options for remedies. Come on, man. You're 31. If you have hesitations about your doctors, find some new ones. If you're in the United States, it doesn't look like public health care will be a viable option for many people in the near future. If you don't have health insurance, figure out a way to get some. If you're diagnosed with something like Marfans before having health care, it will become insanely expensive. Don't put a price on your own health and happiness. If there are remedies to figure out everything that is wrong with you, pursue them. A penile fracture can be repaired - surgery with a specialist will most likely make things better, if not significantly better. As for a thought that you have Marfans, if you don't confirm it now you may inevitably have an aortic aneurysm or rupture. Men and women who go to the hospital for an emergency with such Marfan related symptoms tend only to leave through the morgue. I don't mean to scare you, but spend a little more time worried about your essential organs and skeletal structure and a little less time worried about love, sex, and romance.
dreamingoftigers Posted January 9, 2011 Posted January 9, 2011 Hey QuietGuy, don't turn into SilentGuy. Have you started pursuing anything yet?
Author quietGuy13 Posted January 9, 2011 Author Posted January 9, 2011 (edited) HI well you mean girls? It's sunday today. Yesterday i didn't feel that bad( from my other problem: Spine chest pain) so i was able to go outside and i walked al through downtown but i don't see anyway to meet girls. I'm gonna try again today. But at least i didn't look down, i usually look down because i'm a shy guy, but yesterday i didn't. I did see alot of beautiful girls but they all seem to always be in groups and are outgoing, and i'm not. As for the sex thing, i'm better now from the pain i had 2 days ago and i'm not doing anything sexual so far so i'm fine. and happy Edited January 9, 2011 by quietGuy13
catgotyourtongue Posted January 9, 2011 Posted January 9, 2011 Outside of relationship advice and sex, which you have gotten, you seem like you are working with some EXTREMELY unprofessional and unethical doctors. I mean REALLY REALLY REALLY, DANGEROUSLY unprofessional doctors. You say "So I guess I was born with something like Ehlers or Marfans" ... I come from a family that was plagued by Marfan Syndrome. My great grandmother, my two great aunts, my great uncle, my grandmother all died at early ages from Marfan related symptoms. My mother has Marfan Syndrome, the last person in our family with this debilitating disease. If there is even a chance that you have it and you're older than 21, there is absolutely no reason why your doctor should not have ordered genetic testing to confirm that you have the disease. You mentioned having problems with connective tissue. The primary symptom of Marfan Syndrome is the inability of connective tissue to repair itself. The organ most impacted by this is your heart. You need to get to a doctor as soon as you can. If a doctor suggested you have Marfans and did not confirm it through testing, that person does not in any way, shape, or form deserve to be a doctor. He should lose his license. .... I don't mean to scare you, but spend a little more time worried about your essential organs and skeletal structure and a little less time worried about love, sex, and romance. AGREE with this poster who obviously knows a lot abt these issues. I am the poster who brought up Ehlers. I know a fair amount too, but don't want to say much more as this poster said it all & very well. AND thank you Creighton for bringing the medical side of this up, hugely important. I agree, it's serious stuff and not to be taken lightly, big time. I believe the OP said he did not have insurance, that could be a big issue - no????
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