lost_4_words Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 its been over a yr since the break-up and ive been 9 months nc. we both work in the same company. At the time we were together she worked at another location. we were together for 5 months (yes realitivity short, but its the way things ended that made it debacle for me). when her location got removed, my current manager (a former manager of hers and friend, so I know she knows me and my ex went out) got her a position where I work now (at the time there were other stores she could have worked at). its a small proximity location so I will always be bumping into her. I thought ive been good since then, but this lingering "why" floats in my head. anyone experience this? oh btw she married now, but thats another story...
ByMyselfForNow Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 Sadly yes, I'm working with my ex at the moment but for me it's only been one month since the breakup so I don't think we're in the same stage. I was the dumpee and she has found another man. I have to see her every day so my way of coping with all of this is to ignore her most of the time. We have small conversations usually started by her but I am trying to finish them fast. I'm beginning to feel indifferent so I guess that's a good thing. As long as you avoid personal conversations and keep it professional and pleasant I can tell you it gets better. It worked for me for the last week so I hope this advice will help you too
Author lost_4_words Posted January 6, 2011 Author Posted January 6, 2011 thanks for the advice! itll be another week till I actually work with her. there is one day im actually closing with her so thats gonna be rough. but the same as you I was the dumpee, but stay diligent! you will march on!
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