MissVegas Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 So I'll make this as quick as I can about the guy I was seeing. Xmas went amazing and we had a really great time. I work as a nurse and the plan was to go drive to see his family x mas day so I agreed not to work xmas day and then I'd have to work new years ever instead. Well he got sick right before x mas and decided he wasn't well enough for driving in the car for 8 hours and seeing 30 people at once. So we spent xmas with my family (which was supposed to be on boxing day so my family frantically rushed to make brunch and turkey because we changed plans). Anyways way before this like at the beginning of december i asked him to not ditch me on NYE since i worked till 11 I said I really wanted to spend it with him and we could still do stuff after 11. My friends were all going out of town so I wouldn't be able to see them...Well Thursday before NYE he acts all weird and doesn't want to see me. SO i ask him whats up and he's like I want to go skiing tomorrow with my friends. I said okay no problem since I thought he'd be back by 11 o clock and also said "I'll come over and we'll talk about it" and he said "No i won't be back for 11 im going out of town skiing and im going out afterwards with my friends and i dont want to talk about it because you'll just B~!tch about it and I'm going" i ended up going over anyways and he basically said not to be a "f-ing bitch about it" and he was going. BOO i regret getting him a huge plasma tv for christmas. Anyways he went, I had a chaotic first shift as we were short nurses and then spent it at home by myself crying... To put salt on my wounds there are videos of him posted on facebook from NYE one of which he's behind the bar shirtless jumps on the bar then falls off it drunk and lands on his head then gets up walks away with his shirt still off *from the comments I think it was off all night* the other video is of him pissing on the dance floor. By the way he is 29. So I dumped him... I'm justified right? And should I ask for my tv back?
JaneDoe35 Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 What horrid behaviour from him. If you have been seeing each other for a long time then don't ask for gifts back. But if this is a new relationship hopefully he will just give it back to you. You should give any expensive gift he may have given you back too....
andrew23 Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 Miss Vegas, you sound like a lovely girl, and he sounds like a Prick. Bottom line he doesn't deserve you! Move on and don't waste your time with immature idiots like that. Good luck!
AC06 Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 He's 29 years old? Legit? Um, yeah, you were certainly right to dump him. If he were 19 and not mature enough to know any better... I'd still say you should have dumped him.
WTRanger Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 If you went on a date or were out with your girlfriends and you saw some shirtless ape pissing on the floor, would you say to yourself, "Wow, I really want to be with that guy! I bet he's the CEO of some Save the Children Non-Profit." Weeping Christ on the Cross, at least my dog is house trained. What if your best girlfriend was dating some morose moron like that? Would you suggest that she stay with him? Your TV is long gone. You won't get it back. This guy is a classic A type D-bag. My guess is that he's been a dickrod the whole time. You really shouldn't have to think twice about being justified in dumping him. Try to stay away from this person. He's a loser, a 29 year old loser. Would you want your daughter dating someone like this? What would the 6 year old version of you say to yourself?
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