quietGuy13 Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 (edited) I've never had a date. nor female friends. What are some good places for inexperienced men to meet women? Not all places are easy though especially for us shy guys. Like really public places are hard cause there's all kinds of guys trying to do the same thing. and everyone seeing you. I'm male 31. I've read dating books etc but i don't understand how i can start talking. -supermarkets: really i don't get this at all. cause they say you can do it while waiting in line. But everybody's looking at you while waiting in line and if you're a beginner who is also shy...you'll just get more anxious with all the people staring at you. It's like, an audience seeing you trying to perform. -Same with bookstores etc **** I've tried to talk to women in some places with some success(met foreign girls and had friendly takl) but it's cause it's more of a quiet unpopulated places -Bus stop -quiet lobby in library with about only 4 people. That's easy approaching girls and talking to them in unpopulated places. Problem with this technique is........girl's tend to always go to populated places or come with friends and are never alone. Bookstores and supermarkert etc, is not very easy for beginners. Edited January 5, 2011 by quietGuy13
Allisha Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 Excuse any stupidity here... but just because it's rare, though not at all wrong for a guy of 31 never to have had a date, I thought I'd ask.. but your username is quietguy13, and your post says "i'm male, 31" Are you 13 or 31?? Easy mis-type to make...
Feelin Frisky Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 Continuing education at night. It's the best I've experienced. But even at that you have to assert yourself.
Surrealist Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 Sorry in advance I can't really assist you as I am a rather introverted shy type myself. However..... I have been doing some readings and I share with you some of the advices that I have learned: Get bad ass! Start to learn how to be a cocky, confident asswipe, especially arounds the girlies, they'll swoon for you brother.Get a few tats and shave yo head. Complements point number one in so much that it gives an appropriate image to the character you portray to the womens.Get penis enlargen-ment. Yes, you need to grow a big schlong and impress the ladies in the bedroom with yo comparatively large male organ.Get to the gym, hit the weights doing some 'bro sets' and get hip. Don't just go to the gym and train hard and heavy with the weights, that nonsense is for serious bodybuilders, not bros lookin' to pick up the cardio bunnies. Make sure youse got ur mobile phone and do curls wit one arm, whilst talking to yo bro wit the other arm. Chicks dig this ****, not the overgrown sweaty weightlifters. Oh and lose that puppy fats if yo got any hanging (sorry about the pun) about you. Might be an idea to get a tan too if you can, or a good spray tan.Get a hot car. Chicks lurve the hot cars. Get yoself a sexy set of wheels bro, flaunt those abs and new bod, be cocky, confident and utilise those 'bad boy' skills you learned from the dating books, and you'll have the womens flocking to you in droves. Hope this information assists you in your search for meeting womens. Kind regards.
Titania22 Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 Sorry in advance I can't really assist you as I am a rather introverted shy type myself. However..... I have been doing some readings and I share with you some of the advices that I have learned: Get bad ass! Start to learn how to be a cocky, confident asswipe, especially arounds the girlies, they'll swoon for you brother.Get a few tats and shave yo head. Complements point number one in so much that it gives an appropriate image to the character you portray to the womens.Get penis enlargen-ment. Yes, you need to grow a big schlong and impress the ladies in the bedroom with yo comparatively large male organ.Get to the gym, hit the weights doing some 'bro sets' and get hip. Don't just go to the gym and train hard and heavy with the weights, that nonsense is for serious bodybuilders, not bros lookin' to pick up the cardio bunnies. Make sure youse got ur mobile phone and do curls wit one arm, whilst talking to yo bro wit the other arm. Chicks dig this ****, not the overgrown sweaty weightlifters. Oh and lose that puppy fats if yo got any hanging (sorry about the pun) about you. Might be an idea to get a tan too if you can, or a good spray tan.Get a hot car. Chicks lurve the hot cars. Get yoself a sexy set of wheels bro, flaunt those abs and new bod, be cocky, confident and utilise those 'bad boy' skills you learned from the dating books, and you'll have the womens flocking to you in droves. Hope this information assists you in your search for meeting womens. Kind regards. :lmao:so funny surrealist
Eeyore79 Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 Sorry in advance I can't really assist you as I am a rather introverted shy type myself. However..... I have been doing some readings and I share with you some of the advices that I have learned: Get bad ass! Start to learn how to be a cocky, confident asswipe, especially arounds the girlies, they'll swoon for you brother.Get a few tats and shave yo head. Complements point number one in so much that it gives an appropriate image to the character you portray to the womens.Get penis enlargen-ment. Yes, you need to grow a big schlong and impress the ladies in the bedroom with yo comparatively large male organ.Get to the gym, hit the weights doing some 'bro sets' and get hip. Don't just go to the gym and train hard and heavy with the weights, that nonsense is for serious bodybuilders, not bros lookin' to pick up the cardio bunnies. Make sure youse got ur mobile phone and do curls wit one arm, whilst talking to yo bro wit the other arm. Chicks dig this ****, not the overgrown sweaty weightlifters. Oh and lose that puppy fats if yo got any hanging (sorry about the pun) about you. Might be an idea to get a tan too if you can, or a good spray tan.Get a hot car. Chicks lurve the hot cars. Get yoself a sexy set of wheels bro, flaunt those abs and new bod, be cocky, confident and utilise those 'bad boy' skills you learned from the dating books, and you'll have the womens flocking to you in droves. Hope this information assists you in your search for meeting womens. Kind regards. Most of what you listed would totally turn me off. I like confident men, but cockiness is a no-no. I want a decent guy, not an asswipe. Tattoos and a shaven head would turn me off completely; that sort of look only attracts a certain type of women, so you'd better be sure that's the type you want. Penis enlargement?! Omg that just reeks of insecurity. Fake tan is so metrosexual and unattractive. Being confident, getting fit and having a nice car are pretty much the only points I'd agree with; the rest is just miles off the mark, especially the penis enlargement!!
Author quietGuy13 Posted January 5, 2011 Author Posted January 5, 2011 Thanks guys but you didn't really tell me any places
Titania22 Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 Most of what you listed would totally turn me off. I like confident men, but cockiness is a no-no. I want a decent guy, not an asswipe. Tattoos and a shaven head would turn me off completely; that sort of look only attracts a certain type of women, so you'd better be sure that's the type you want. Penis enlargement?! Omg that just reeks of insecurity. Fake tan is so metrosexual and unattractive. Being confident, getting fit and having a nice car are pretty much the only points I'd agree with; the rest is just miles off the mark, especially the penis enlargement!! Can't you take a joke Eeyore79.
Eeyore79 Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 I thought he was being serious! I dunno whether the OP thought the same...
Trextom Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 try a dating website maybe. It easier to take rejection and its easier to fake confidence.
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