habs53 Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 Not sure if this is the correct thread but oh well. I am overwelmed, depressed....you name it I am trying to run a house one one salary that use to be 2. I still have all my regular bills and now the heating of winter and so on. I started a new job for more money but this is hopeless. I take care of my son full time and my ex pays no child support or nothing. We went to mediation and its going to drag out for some time. The goal is to go 50/50 with our son. This could take months and months because he is not coping well and refuses to go to his mothers and will undergo counseling help soon. He is autistic which makes it even worst. The stress of trying to work, being broke and taking care of a child who is miserable is over whelming. My friends are a bunch of users who just want want want. So basically i feel i have no friends, my debt is building up and i see no end in sight. I can see eventually my good credit gone, losing my home and her getting my child because im not fit to take care of him. People say keep your head up, be strong. Well you know what, life sucks. I must be the most unhappy person in the world right now. I feel there is no hope for anything.
onetoughkitty Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 Not sure if this is the correct thread but oh well. I am overwelmed, depressed....you name it I am trying to run a house one one salary that use to be 2. I still have all my regular bills and now the heating of winter and so on. I started a new job for more money but this is hopeless. I take care of my son full time and my ex pays no child support or nothing. We went to mediation and its going to drag out for some time. The goal is to go 50/50 with our son. This could take months and months because he is not coping well and refuses to go to his mothers and will undergo counseling help soon. He is autistic which makes it even worst. The stress of trying to work, being broke and taking care of a child who is miserable is over whelming. My friends are a bunch of users who just want want want. So basically i feel i have no friends, my debt is building up and i see no end in sight. I can see eventually my good credit gone, losing my home and her getting my child because im not fit to take care of him. People say keep your head up, be strong. Well you know what, life sucks. I must be the most unhappy person in the world right now. I feel there is no hope for anything. How long have you been going through this? I have been living a single parent life for almost a year now. Why is your ex refusing child support? Do you have sole custody?
Author habs53 Posted January 5, 2011 Author Posted January 5, 2011 I dont have legal full custody but mediation will not force him to stay with his mom because of his adjustment problems. Not until medical people feel he is fit for 50/50 custody. I have had him full time since August She cries hard time in mediation, and they basically have not told her she has to pay anything. She tells them that she buys him clothes and stuff for her place. Does me allot of good. I mean i have no life. I dont go out, im broke and things are just getting worst.
onetoughkitty Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 I dont have legal full custody but mediation will not force him to stay with his mom because of his adjustment problems. Not until medical people feel he is fit for 50/50 custody. I have had him full time since August She cries hard time in mediation, and they basically have not told her she has to pay anything. She tells them that she buys him clothes and stuff for her place. Does me allot of good. I mean i have no life. I dont go out, im broke and things are just getting worst. Who cares if she cries! If she has a job, she can pay some child support especially if it seems you have full custody. Your mediator sucks if she doesn't see through that nonsense. Do you have any family you can talk to?
Author habs53 Posted January 5, 2011 Author Posted January 5, 2011 yeah i do but i think they are talked out. not much they can do. i dont think i have felt this low in my life ever.
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