no_clue Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 Im trying to be with this girl and she led me on at first we were real close to going out, she left me hanging n now im going crazy thinking about it. We hung out once, i was shy and after that she became a little distant and now we are just texting slowly it was everyday. I asked what was going on she said she wasnt ready to date yet, but she did say eventually she wanted to go out ,shes the party type, and i used to party but now i stay home mostly and try to make a living. Im afraid she might meet someone she thinks is better than me or more attractive as she is probably a 8 out of 10 to most guys so she gets enough attention. Even though i think i have enough going on in my life that i will be successful in less than 6 months. I also feel i might be thinking into it to much and she just wants to take it slow. I need to make a serious move because her life situation is about to change drastically. Sometime before the end of this year she will be forced to move out on her own or with someone she chooses. She can actually leave the states custody anytime she wishes but she has no stable friends or family to go to. I aim to win her heart and let her move in with me which im working on getting my own place. I dont know what to do i dont want to seem to clingy but i dont want to seem like i dont like her either. Should i just not contact her and see if she contacts me or shower her with affection please let me know what you think tell me if im paranoid or trying to rush things im an idiot when it comes to girls but this girl is special to me and is the best thing i have going for me right now.
Author no_clue Posted January 5, 2011 Author Posted January 5, 2011 HELP!!! Damn it what should i do im letting major life deicisions ride on this if it doesnt work out im moving out of state
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