Melodie Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 I will admit the last couple of days I have been emailing my ex with how I still love him and want him back. The only response is it is 'stop sending these emails, it is over, there is nothing you can do.' He is still very upset and hurt. By the break up as well. It has only been a week. Even though he was the one that ended it. He won't talk to me at all about it because he thinks the problem will still be there and has lost total faith in me. He talks but. Only if it is about money for our place we are renting or us moving out at the end of the month. It really hurts when I see that because I felt like I had done so much for him last year and now. That was all for nothing. It would have been our one year anniversary next week if we were still together. . Going to start no contact today. If I hear from him again I do, if not I don't. What is the most likely outcome? Regardless moving on and doing my own thing.
LifeIsGreat Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 The outcome depends mostly on the dynamics of your relationships over the last year. I know this sucks, but you have to assume it's over for good. That's the only way for you to heal. And if (and it's a BIG if) you remotely had a chance of working this out--- the only way is to assume it's over for good.
homebrew Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 I suggest you read the following threads and come back here and post any more questions or comments that you might have: Dumped? These Are The Two Biggest Mistakes You Will Make! No Contact for Dummies (THIS IS A MUST READ FOR EVERYONE!!!!) The Definitive Guide If You Were Dumped (Pocket Edition Dumped? (I suggest you open me up and have a look) Do You Remember The First Time You Saw Them? For Me "The Grass Is Greener" Syndrome - EXPLAINED!!!!! (PLEASE READ IF YOU GOT DUMPED!)
Recommended Posts