JP2009 Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 (edited) Most of you probably didn't read my last few posts so here is a short review followed by a follow up story. Dated a girl long distance. She came back this summer lead me on all summer by sleeping with me and telling me that there is still a chance. She had feelings for a friend of mine. They talked behind my back. That didn't work out. She met another guy at a concert. She slept with this guy then she heard that this guy has slept with multiple women and even one the same week as her.... All of this while leading me on. She gets back to school and decides that she doesn't want to be with me. I told her not to talk to me. She couldn't go more than three weeks without talking to me. I never made first contact. She was back for Thanksgiving. I didn't think I'd hear from her. She called and wanted to see me. I said ok. It turned out bad because it was just arguing. She went back to school talked to me every day and night for a week. I was getting feelings back again and I told her so. She didn't seem to mind and kept talking. Called her one night when I was drunk and she admitted she had a boyfriend. I was pissed and called her some names and told her to never talk to me again. I apologized the next day but said we shouldn't talk.... Christmas time... I knew she was home. Didn't care cause I didn't think I'd hear from her. Couple weeks go by and this last weekend. The night after new years I was sleeping and 2 in the morning I get a call and it's her. I answer and she asks me for a ride. I knew she had been drinking and I said sure. Then she slowly eases into the story that it will be her and her boyfriend needing a ride. She told me that it was that guy that she met this summer that has been known to be a man whore. At first I was like no way. But then I was going to be the nice guy and give them a ride home. So I said sure. She said ok I'll text you directions. As soon as we hung up she text me and said sorry for waking you don't worry about it. It'll be fine. I said ok. Then she said I really didnt want to call you. Thanks for being the better person. I couldn't do that to you. Then I said I wish you the best. Good night. She never replied. A day goes by and all I could do was bring this up to friends and they all said the same thing "who does that?" "who would call your ex and ask for a ride for you and your new bf?" So it upset me and I text her and asked her to delete me out of her phone. An hour later she replied and said ur number will be deleted take care. I said you too. OK.... Who calls their ex asking for a ride for her and her new bf just a few weeks after I told her I wanted to be with her? What kind of person does this? Does she have some crazy issues going on? Why would she want to date this guy after hearing all of the stories about how many women he has slept with? So dumb Edited January 4, 2011 by JP2009
NoLongerSad Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 It sounds like she really needed a ride. It doesn't sound like she attached any particular emotional significance to the relationship with you.
Author JP2009 Posted January 4, 2011 Author Posted January 4, 2011 I'm not saying she had emotions for me. I'm asking why would an ex who knew how I felt about her and wanted to be with her a few weeks ago could call up that ex and ask them for a ride with their new significant other?
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