SophiaL Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 So..., I have been avoiding the ex, so that i can move on. I can't cut him completely off my life, but I do not initiate contact anymore. He seems to have moved on already and is already seeing other girls. I myself was a 'victim' of the grass is greener syndrome (we broke up the relationship after being together for 7 years, I wasn't feeling 100% in love with him anymore), but hey that's life. I'm now struggling to move on. We've been broken up for 6 months, which the past 3 months were really hard for me, because I was still seeing him and sometimes sleeping together (and he has been seeing other people, since we broke up and one of the girls is like on a regular basis-but for him he's just enjoying his life!). I've decided to move past that, but on NYE he texted me to wish a happy new year and I’ve texted him back the same. Then today he texted me again to see how I was doing, and I replied back saying that I was fine. He sent another text and I also replied, purely friends text! I don't know if I should be texting him back, but he played a huge part in my life and I don't want to loose contact, but at the same time I want to move on?! It is so hard.... Any advice??
homebrew Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 My advice is to read the following threads and come back here with any questions or comments that you might have: Dumped? These Are The Two Biggest Mistakes You Will Make! No Contact for Dummies (THIS IS A MUST READ FOR EVERYONE!!!!) The Definitive Guide If You Were Dumped (Pocket Edition Dumped? (I suggest you open me up and have a look) Do You Remember The First Time You Saw Them? For Me "The Grass Is Greener" Syndrome - EXPLAINED!!!!! (PLEASE READ IF YOU GOT DUMPED!) If you want to start the healing process... You have to go No Contact! Do not respond to him in the future unless he tells you he wants you back!
Author SophiaL Posted January 4, 2011 Author Posted January 4, 2011 Thank you for the links, they're amazing! Will always refer back to them... Just got to understand that it's over for a reason, and like once i heard..."when someone leaves is because somebody new is about to arrive". Heads up and we all will go past it!!!
homebrew Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 Glad that I was able to help... You will have good days and bad. Keep reading and posting... It makes a WORLD of difference!
homebrew Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 Glad that I was able to help... You will have good days and bad. Keep reading and posting... It makes a WORLD of difference!
runforafall Posted February 25, 2011 Posted February 25, 2011 (edited) Oops wrong thread. Edited February 25, 2011 by runforafall
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