splendid Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 Happy New Year LSers I am dating this girl that ended a LTR 6 months ago. 2 months into our relationship she contacted her ex to tell him what a wuss he is and that she is dating. Then she sent him a friend request on FB which he accepted and within a week he disappeared completely. After a month of the ex disappearing, which is recently, I saw where she wrote on a forum that she stayed up 1 night crying because she says her feelings but she don’t display them. She is broken, hurt and still healing. She is rebuilding and restoring what was lost and she is leaning on me for my support. My concern is within 2 months of us dating she wrote on her wall how wonderful I am and she is happy to have met me, post all the love songs and that she have waited all her life for me and even refer to me as her hubby. Consider the above isn’t this too soon too quick for she to be stating that she is in love? Am I being use to as a recovering ground? After reading about GIGS I think she left him because of GIGS. Your advise please.
AC06 Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 Take it slow and build YOUR relationship, don't be a continuation of her last. Take your time and don't over commit, you'll find out sooner or later whether you're being used as a stepping stone.
Apoorv Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 Hi splendid .... i am just out of a rebound and this is very similar to my story .... As things were going at the speed of light .... and i think i committed too soon ... If you really like this girl then i would say take it slow ... the way you are comfortable ..... there might be a lot of emotional hocus pocus .... HANDLE WITH CARE!!!!! ... best of luck dude;-)
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