youngskywalker Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 Background: Just finished the third date with this girl (we didn't know each other previously). Everything went great, we made out (just kissing). At the end of the night we talked about getting together again. Fast forward: I call her two days later to set up the date and she says yes without any hesitation. We're going to a festival/concert (if that matters for what I'm about to tell you). Then, the same night she texts me and asks if it would be ok if she brings some friends along. So I concurred that it would be fine. WOW!! Never had this one happen to me before so early on. Did I just get the rug pulled out from underneath me? Maybe I'm getting friend zoned or maybe she just wants her friends to meet me for approval? What up wit dat? Time will tell if and when I get a fifth date so for now I'm just going with the flow and not worrying about it. Just wondering if this is 'code' for something.
january2010 Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 Maybe she's more comfortable with you and would like you to meet her friends. Maybe her friends were planning to go to the concert anyway and she thought it would be a good idea to go together and see her friends and you at the same time. Maybe all the above including the reasons you suggested. I think you should go with "time will tell."
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