splendid Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 Happy New Year LSers I am dating this girl that ended a LTR 6 months ago. 2 months into our relationship she contacted her ex to tell him what a wuss he is and that she is dating. Then she sent him a friend request on FB which he accepted and within a week he disappeared completely. After a month of the ex disappearing, which is recently, I saw where she wrote on a forum that she stayed up 1 night crying because she says her feelings but she don’t display them. She is broken, hurt and still healing. She is rebuilding and restoring what was lost and she is leaning on me for my support. My concern is within 2 months of us dating she wrote on her wall how wonderful I am and she is happy to have met me, post all the love songs and that she have waited all her life for me and even refer to me as her hubby. Consider the above isn’t this too soon too quick for she to be stating that she is in love? Am I being use to as a recovering ground? After reading about GIGS I think she left him because of GIGS. Your advise please.
youngskywalker Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 My concern is within 2 months of us dating she wrote on her wall how wonderful I am and she is happy to have met me, post all the love songs and that she have waited all her life for me and even refer to me as her hubby....Am I being use to as a recovering ground? How do you think the relationship is going? When you're with her does she seem to love you the way she stated on her blog?
dest Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 hmm she might be using you to help her recover, but honestly that doesn't mean that she will be unable to form a unique & lasting relationship with you. having said that, i personally wouldn't date someone who just came out of a relationship and is having issues because it's bound to be a complicated bumpy ride.
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