Stonewall Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 (edited) http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t258497/ Here is the situation... Just read the opening and you'll get a general summary of the situation. Basically she MIA for 6 days after I asked to be exclusive save for an email that said MERRY CHRISTMAS on christmas eve. She contacts me again on Wensday returning a call I left her right after christmas. We talk for 30 minutes, and then she text me and doesn't respond for a day. She calls me up at 1:30 in the morning asking if I want to go out to breakfeast right then and there with her. We go out, and we basically spend the whole night out having a good time until the sun comes up. Before she goes out clubbing with her friends on NYE she ask me how my day went. That day I got hit in the head hard by accident. I told her and she spent the whole night texting me, asking how I was doing. After that she just shows up randomly, unannounced. She text me telling me to go outside. I go out and there she is. I get in her car and she is having a panic attack. She was talking about how she feels like a crazy stalker for coming out to my house that night. We again spend the whole night together even though she had a a New Years day party with her family and she hadn't gotten much sleep the night before. We have a long makeout session. Fastforward 1 day to January second and she is really subdued. Then she starts talking about her Mom and Dads relationship. Randomly spounting her ideas about marriage, and of course I added a little bit of comentary. She text me later and tells me she's sorry for being in such a weird mood today. Then I tell her that I'm probably not going to get any sleep and she says she wishes she could be there with me... I ask her are you asking me out? And she says NO PRESSURE then she lays out the plans (She was running a few errands and they happened to coincide with things I needed to do anyways) I play it off saying alright in a text. Then she says hey it's not problem I can go by myself it's not problem. I text her saying I want to go. She replies a few hours later that she is done with everything.... Today especially she is acting the weirdest. I'm confused, and even a little disturbed by this sudden change in behavior. I can't read her at all, is she wanting something? What do you guys think this weirdness is? I've been perplexed by her all day. Should I comfront her about this behavior? I've known her for awhile, even before we started dating and she never has done anything like this before. I'm worried something is going on with her and I don't know what.. Something just seems strange, a little off. Edited January 4, 2011 by Stonewall
january2010 Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 I hope your head is much better. From reading your other thread, it sounds like this girl is very confused. She's got a lot going on and it just seems like you're really never sure about where you stand with her. It looks like you are really starting to fall for this girl. You do need to be careful because it seems that you are her option whereas she's becoming your priority. That's not a satisfying position to be in. I suggest clearing the air with her about what you are both looking for by being together and whether or not those goals are compatible and attainable given the current situation.
Author Stonewall Posted January 4, 2011 Author Posted January 4, 2011 Well I talked to her today and she said something about getting serious with me. We didn't get to finish the talk because we were short on time. We are going to have the talk again on Friday. So I think she is close to commiting to me.
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