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I am in the same situation as many i feel..where they begin 2 get into contact with their ex again over holdiays for w.e reason.. mine goes back to X-mas. We were in NC for about a few weeks we broke up officially around end of october beginning of november, this is when i gave up tryin to fix anything between us and she left me for this other guy she got feelings for which occured back in may when i left for 15 days to go to my country.. fked up isnt it?.. we were together for 4.5 years. we are both 20 now. She is in a relationship with that guy now...got with him right after we broke up...i still dont understand that..but w.ee this is the reason i am here:

 

I recieve a txt from her yesterday night with my name and a question ? .....

so i respond ....ye? im here

and she goes: nice reply anyways..i wanted to see how you are doing?

i go: the same as i have been since october

she goes: are you doing okay?

i tell her: how do you think i feel after everything that has happened

i than go into a couple of txts explaining how i feel blah blah

 

she responds: i just wana talk why do you always talk about the unhappy things...your constantly talkin bad about me..i just wana talk to you cuz i have no one else i can tell it to (wtf?:S) but its okay if me msging you is reminding you of everything bad..i will stop..

 

so i respond...uh wat r u talkin about...wat do u mean no one else u can tell it to? what do u mean by that..she hasnt replied yet....she has for a i dono how many times now..but she takes a good time inbetween txts to reply..i dono wat she is tryin 2 do with that..make it seem like shes busy?? or sumthin cuz sumtimes a good day goes by and she doesnt respond so i dono wat shes tryin 2 do....now i dont get it..how does she want me to be like? to talk 2 her normally? she left me for sum1 else after so long...i dont understand wat her motives are..can sum1 plz explain her thought process 2 me....

 

 

this makes no sense 2 me..is she plyin around and keepin mee close by or wtf is happening? and what does this mean for her relationship wit the guy....they already had a little fight and she removed her status on fb and removed him as a friend...

 

a day later everything is back 2 normal..so what does that mean things r becoming rocky between them and it hasnt even been 2 months..

 

plz some insight is appreciated.

thank you

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Keep in mind i didnt say nething bad about her specifically i just said she completley changed in my eyes and shes not the same person 2 me anymore and stuff in that sense and how i dont understand how sum1 can do that..and how she acted liek i was a stranger 2 leading up to the break up and even after

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