slim255 Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 Hi there, Im a 28 year old male, and my now ex is 37 (yes 9 years different) I met her about 3 months ago through a friend. 4 months before that she was with a guy "12 years" younger than her for 3 years, they lived togther for 2 of those years. he broke up with her and kicked her out, for pretty much no reason she said, he told her she disgusted him and to get out, a few weeks later he came to her asking for another chance, they got back together then 4 weeks later he split up with her again. We clicked the first night we met. After we had been seeing each other for a week or so I said to her that she has to be 100% sure shes over him for us to go any further, she said she was. 3 weeks before we met he came around to her house begging for her back, then a month after we had been togther he run her at work begging for her back, then a couple of weeks later he rung her again, this came out when she was drunk one night, she told me she was crying on the phone to him to just leave her alone to get one with her life. She was living in the same city as him up until 3 weeks ago (one hour from me) she got herself a new job in my town and moved over, ever since then she had been acting a bit different, she was so excited about moving, living close to me, being able to see me all the time and so on. she didnt seem that way when she moved, was acting a bit distant. So today she rung me and told me it was over that she couldnt see a future between us, I told her that was crap there must be someone else, she told me her ex came around to her parents house on xmas day telling her that he had changed, she said he really seemed like he had changed, he was off the drugs and so on. she didnt want to spend the rest of her life wondering "what if" what if she gave him another chance... She said shes not back with him but is going to see what happens. she told me at the start that he put her through an emotional rollercoaster and she never wants to go there again. Why the hell would she even think about giving him another chance? His plans were to fly over seas to live but told her he couldnt do it because he wanted to be with her. Why oh why?
Leandro Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 Sounds like you were just a rebound. . They were together for a long time. Don't worry about it. Let her deal with him again.
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