beauty0815 Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 (edited) this is kind of a continuation from my last post it wont let me edit ..[COLOR=#660000]My Ex Bf Left Abruptly Me For Another Girl Without Explanation ![/COLOR] I hope you can find my last post then this post will make more sense . basically if you ccant find it it just talked about how my first love on/off again bf left me for another girl ! he never broke up with me verbally he just stopped answering my calls texts and messages on FB. He left me to pick uo the peices of my heart again ...How do you cope when the love you love is with somebody else and theres nothing you can do about it ? i swear it hard to move on especially when its right infront of your face / getting left is the worst feeling possible ! the worst feeling is seeing the one you love / love someone else ! please i need anyones view on this ! male and female ! MALE especially i would love to know a males point of view i need answers it hurts soo bad i cry all the time . Why do men ignore women they claim they love? why leave a good girl for a hood girl ? how come if he didnt want to be with me he tried to start a convo in person ? will he ever regret it ? is karma real? hes too happy and its killing me his whole FB is about her should i stop looking at it i feel like itll help me cope with it but its really not working ? how can i officially move on eventhough its still fresh ? PLEASE IF YOU HAVE ANY ANSWERS FEEL FREE TO COMMENT ID APPRECTATE IT ALOT ! Edited January 4, 2011 by beauty0815
AC06 Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 I'm not going to lie to you, he sounds like a bad guy. I'm sure one day he will regret it, but as hard as it is, you should worry about making sure you learn from it and don't regret it. And STAY OFF FACEBOOK. No good can come from this.
Leandro Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 Why do men ignore women they claim they love? Some do, some don't. I never ignored my ex. why leave a good girl for a hood girl ? It's what he wants. Don't change either!! how come if he didnt want to be with me he tried to start a convo in person ? He's just immature. Pretty low of him to do you like that. will he ever regret it ? Maybe. Might be years till he regrets it. Don't worry about it anymore. is karma real? I think it is. hes too happy and its killing me his whole FB is about her should i stop looking at it i feel like itll help me cope with it but its really not working ? Yes!! STOP!!! I deleted mine.
bboy Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 If your relationship didn't contain abuse, then running away without saying a word is actions of a coward. Yes a real coward. This can be said without any bitterness. I have a feeling that this person is immature or not that old either. Because adults stand up for their actions and take the consequences. Since the above behaviour speaks tons of the person it also gives you a hint of how the reaction will be if you try to contact him. First thing you should do is to stop making impulsive decisions. Second thing is to think through how a relationship with a person with low morale would affect your life. Your feelings will without a doubt betray you here, so you'll end up with one logical conclusion and one emotional. So you'll need to cut away the parts in your life that feeds your emotions and causing the drama. Usually known as "No Contact". One last thing. You might have dated an *******, but if you become one yourself you've lost. Don't be bitter. Don't be mad. Don't search for revenge. Move on in your life instead.
Author beauty0815 Posted January 5, 2011 Author Posted January 5, 2011 Thank you soo much for all of the comments and NO it did not contain abuse at all . he was actually really respectful and loving when we were together the only downfall was the leaving me for other women . I;ve stopped getting on FB and checking his FB ive been doing good with it too. Its still hard but im pulling through and im better than i was 3 days ago ! however i would love karma to bite him in his ASS !
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