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Hello!

I came to the site because I have a question.

 

I was at work today and I'm sitting at my desk and I hear the door buzzer that goes off when someone enters. In walks a very beautiful girl that sparked my attention instantly. Now she wasn't a model or anything way out of my league, although I am told I am very attractive and that I have good qualities. She just had a natural beauty that I couldn't take my eyes off of her. But anyway, I cleared my throat and took a deep breath and proceeded to go help her. Approaching with a smile, I asked how she was doing and stuttered when I locked eyes with her. I felt like an idiot as she smiled back and talked about the problem she was having. Unfortunately the problem was out of my control and I had to call Dealer Support. Well, the bad part is that they had me on hold for almost half an hour and I kept having to apologize to her that it was taking so long. She kept smiling and saying that it was ok and that she had time and it was no rush. COOL! So I helped her out, got everything under control for her and sent her off. She said thank you with a smile as she looked into my eyes and told me I was very nice. I said thank you and to come back if she had any more problems and she said that she definitely would. She walked out and took one last look at me as she smiled and walked out the door........Unfortunately, my boss was sitting right behind me, so I couldn't flirt with her or anything or ask for her number. I had to keep it professional and I did. THIS SUCKS! I've been at this job for almost 4 months and I've seen lots of good looking women who were very nice, but I never wanted to hit on any of them. With her it was different. I was attracted to everything, her looks, her voice, her eyes, her smile. I was like wow......

 

OK, now that the story is over I'll go on.....Now this may seem creepy, but I knew her full name because I had to get her info to help her out. So when I got home I thought I'd just look her up on facebook. Well, she has a profile! Question is, would it be creepy to add her as a friend and maybe try to talk to her then? Or should I maybe just wait to see if she stops by my store like she said she would? I just think it'll be a little creepy to just up and add her. It's already stalker status that I even looked to see if she had a facebook page! Would you be creeped out if a guy you met tracked you down and found your facebook and added you as a friend? lol

 

Advice please and thank you!

Posted

Yep. Even if it were a guy I really liked at first glance, it would be a bit unsettling and would raise my guard up

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Yeah I haven't done it. I feel crazy for even looking her up. I've never done this before lol.

 

Maybe I'll just wait to see if she comes back in. If not, there are plenty more fish in the sea...

Posted

Good attitude. But don't feel bad about the Facebook thing. Most people would succumb to such curiosity

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You should just risk it if you really like this girl. You could be really humble and straight forward when you message her.

 

Maybe something along the lines of; I could probably lose my job for doing this but I just had to let you know you’re beautiful. I should have told you in person, but at the time I thought I could remain professional. I’d like to see you again. If I don’t hear back from you please just take my attention as a compliment and forget I ever asked.

 

In person is always best though.

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Thanks night, but i still think it'll be a little too creepy. Those lines sound very good though. But hey, what's the worst I'll get? A No? Or a Leave me alone? Or even a lost customer?

 

I need more answers! preferrably from females :p

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You could always call her up from work and say you found an earring or something where she was sitting and wondered if it was hers, or some excuse like that.

 

Obviously she will say she didn't and you could say it's too bad because you were hoping you'd get to see her again and check her reaction and go from there.

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Wow, this is a tricky one.

 

 

Better that her info fell into your hands this way, than had she merely used a debit or credit card to make a $10 purchase at a retail store where you worked.

 

I'm sure she could raise hell with your boss and get you in some trouble if she took it the wrong way.

 

Given what you said, though, I sorta think she was taking mild interest in you at the time, so the coast may be fairly clear.

 

Maybe wait several days, make up a fake Facebook account, and message her through that... tell her "hi, this is weird, but I met you recently and am wondering if you have a boyfriend". (maybe that way you don't have to commit in terms of risking something in utilizing her info, only to find out that she does indeed have a boyfriend)

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The answer is SIMPLE, DO NOT FRIEND her right away.... send her a message first (if her profile allows you to)

 

I usually dislike it when people friend request me if they do not message me first....

 

I do not think there would be anything wrong with sending a message sayings something like :

 

"Hi, remember me? : ) I was the guy who helped you at the office the other day. I was going to say more to you at the office however my boss may not have liked it. I hope it is ok i am sending you this message, just wanted to connect with you a little more."

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You have nothing to lose, if she does not want to talk with you she wont and if she does then she will. You only stand to gain. Unless you think you may get FIRED from your job for misuse of information(he name) that you obtained at teh job place....

 

(Do Not make a fake facebook acount for this purpose)

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