randuff Posted January 3, 2011 Posted January 3, 2011 It will be 4 years this April and I am still not 100% over her. Although she was the one who cheated I stuck with it trying to make it work. I was suppose to marry this woman and I think about her everyday. All I can do is live my life and when thoughts of her come to my head, I need to just occupy my time with something else. Four years..... Who in their right mind hangs on that long? Ugh, one day at a time is all I can do. /rant
sedgwick Posted January 3, 2011 Posted January 3, 2011 It's been four years for me too. Haven't had a date or even a kiss since then. Still completely in love with him. I've kind of just given up on it ever changing and am now just trying to figure out how to deal with being single forever.
davisc123 Posted January 3, 2011 Posted January 3, 2011 If you don't mind me asking how long have each of you been NC? I'm assuming of course that you are NC. I really feel for the both of you. It's been 7 months since my break up and to think I could still feel this way in four years time is alarming.
Author randuff Posted January 3, 2011 Author Posted January 3, 2011 It's been four years for me too. Haven't had a date or even a kiss since then. Still completely in love with him. I've kind of just given up on it ever changing and am now just trying to figure out how to deal with being single forever. Pretty much how I feel Sedgwick. I actually recall you replying to one of my post years ago if I am not mistaken. All we can do is take it day by day and one of these days we WILL meet the next one and all will become a memory... Hopefully If you don't mind me asking how long have each of you been NC? I'm assuming of course that you are NC. I really feel for the both of you. It's been 7 months since my break up and to think I could still feel this way in four years time is alarming. I have been terrible with NC. For the first 2 years we saw each other every week and still talked every day. More recently it has been better with the exception of her calling me to wish a happy birthday in October which I answered the call not realizing who it was before I did. Prior to that it was emails from work. Let me tell you that in the spans between NC I do much better but when she emails or texts me I personally find it difficult to not respond which then in turn makes things awfully difficult. Best thing to do is strict NC ALL THE TIME! So my advice? Do as I say NOT as I do.
Mrlonelyone Posted January 3, 2011 Posted January 3, 2011 I can really feel where both of you are coming from. It's hard for me to imagine falling quite so hard and so deep for someone else ever again. I have had one other long relationship since her.... and to be honest while in the moment it was gratifying...it was not anything near as good as she was. There are times I wish that the parts of me that feel emotions could be removed forever.
sedgwick Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 If you don't mind me asking how long have each of you been NC? I'm assuming of course that you are NC. He called me one time a year after he left me and I told him I loved him but couldn't be his friend, and hung up on him. So it's been three years NC for me. I never saw him again after the day he walked out the door.
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