fleur_de_me Posted January 3, 2011 Posted January 3, 2011 My ex broke up with me this summer, it seemed out of nowhere, I was really messed up. I thought it was because I was going away to grad school- he told me he couldn't do distance. He was the love of my life, we had an amazing relationship and I thought we'd work it out. Even after we broke up he told me that maybe when I finish school things could work out with us, that I was the only person who made him feel this way, that he could ever marry for love, blah blah. After the break-up, I went NC to try to get my new life together and focus on school. I saw him in October after he started to IM and call, but it was a disaster, mostly because I got super sick when I was at his place. He drove me back to the airport, but we didn't speak after that, I decided to go NC again and this time he never contacted me. Over Xmas/New Year's, I was in town, went to a party with a bunch of our mutual friends, he wasn't there. I was surprised he didn't come to the party or come say hi since I was staying with one of his old roommates for a few days. While I was there, I found out that he is trying to set up an arranged marriage and apparently he can't be seen with me or speak to me or it would hurt his chances. Then one of his friends brought over some of my things that had been left at his apartment. This was like a knife in my already broken heart. We'd ended things on friendly terms, I was just trying to move on with my life, although I never really did (despite dating other people and doing NC). He is still the love of my life, and I can't believe he didn't even have the courage to tell me that he was doing this. Hearing it from his friends was so bad. I guess I have no choice now but to move on- he's made up his mind that what he wants is some 20 year old girl from India, and not me, and there's nothing I can do. But it feels SO so horrible. I'm so broken, I don't know how to get better.
mridul_chajilee Posted January 3, 2011 Posted January 3, 2011 helo dont worry im from india.just give her name and her address of india.i wil tell her parents for the cancel of this marriage if her address near to me.thanks.send info at [email protected]
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