joe777 Posted January 3, 2011 Posted January 3, 2011 I am newly single (divorced after 18 yr marriage) and interested in more then one woman. Trying to figure out what is acceptable. I really don't want to come across as being an ass, but the truth is I have no intentions of being married any time soon, if at all. My priority is my children. I have lots of friends both male & female to do things with. So is dating or seeing more then one woman, okay? I am involved with one that well, it is mostly sexual. Just good old fashion hot & heavy sex. I have another that really peaks my interest we've only met for drinks several times & at couple of social events. We have a lot more in common. I'd like to pursue her a bit more. And there is one or two other that have showed they are open to getting to each other better. I am in no way a player, or a stud. I am however very respectful of women, and confused about seeing more then one at a time. Is that acceptable, do people do this? (i know people do this, but is it somewhat acceptable in most peoples eyes?)
USCGAviator Posted January 3, 2011 Posted January 3, 2011 I was in your shoes not long ago. Recently divorced myself after 10yrs and 3 kids. Go with honesty..it works. I tell the women I "see" that I'm not looking for a relationship and just "shopping" if you will. No need to dupe women with false dreams of a relationship if your just looking for some companionship before you decide to get serious again. I'm very honest, up front and in this case honesty is the best policy.
Author joe777 Posted January 3, 2011 Author Posted January 3, 2011 Great answer, and pretty much what I expected to do. I owe it to them and myself to shop around, and be honest about it. Do you think on initial dates & conversations, I should bring it up right away...hmm, probably not. Maybe after 2-3 meetings, don't ya think? I told one (the one I am most interested in) a few months back when she was dating someone, that I was not interested in a relationship. Just friendly conversation then. She has since told me she is done with her previous beau. That is why I am open to dating her, now. I didn't want to interfear w/ what she had going on. Now she is single, I am hoping for some one on one time.
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