Stilicho Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 i recently posted my story, and you can find it pretty easily. long story short, my Ex, whom i dated for 2 yrs, gave every ounce of my love(i still do love her, unfortunately), and who i adored, was found to be messing around with some loser from her job, and she ultimately decided reconciliation was too hard, and turned to him. mind you, i never mistreated her, on the contrary, did everything i could for her. the guy she left me for(in effect), is some mid 20's "wigger" with tattoos, that is going no where, and offers nothing, while im about to go to lawschool next semester. why does this happen?
USMCHokie Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 the guy she left me for(in effect), is some mid 20's "wigger" with tattoos, that is going no where, and offers nothing, while im about to go to lawschool next semester. You are a better person...and I understand that you probably feel pretty angry, but you don't need to judge other people like that...because it says something about you... why does this happen? Because the world decided you deserve a better girl who appreciates a good man. If she doesn't understand or appreciate what she had with you, then you're better off without her. You may not see it now, but in the end of all this, YOU win.
AbsoluteSucker Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 if a girl is not ready to commit or is developing GIGS, sometimes it's easier for them to be with someone who they know it's not going to work out with and just "have fun." I know it doesn't make it easier, but that's what I have discovered.
Author Stilicho Posted January 2, 2011 Author Posted January 2, 2011 Originally Posted by Stilicho the guy she left me for(in effect), is some mid 20's "wigger" with tattoos, that is going no where, and offers nothing, while im about to go to lawschool next semester. You are a better person...and I understand that you probably feel pretty angry, but you don't need to judge other people like that...because it says something about yo Thing is though, shes the one who called him a loser, and even said he was not the one for her.....
durkadurka Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 Because it's change. It's different.. and it's not stale. The guy my ex is dating is 10 years older than her, works for his dad, and lost his house last year. I used to do modelling, while his face should be put on an advertisement for plastic surgery and acne medication. Who knows, really.
Duckduckgoose Posted January 3, 2011 Posted January 3, 2011 Why does it happen? Because she doesn't want a successful man with a good future ahead of him. She would rather have an STD and a baby daddy that will probably hurt her and the kid.
goldenrainbow Posted January 3, 2011 Posted January 3, 2011 Some girls like the adventure of what we usually call "the bad boys". Been there, done that. Can't explain. I did this in my teen years though...
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