msbliss Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 So, I need some advice. I moved 700 miles from home with my long-term boyfriend whom I now don't think I should stay with. The problem is that we moved less than 6 months ago, signed a year long lease and don't know very many people in the area. I feel stuck in the situation because of the above reasons. I never thought it would be like this, but he can't control himself and often says terrible, hateful things to me. When we try to resolve our conflicts, he is absolutely unable to own up to his part of it...so much so that I'm beyond dealing with things because in his opinion I am the screw up. How do you resolve things with someone that can't view the entire situation? Do I bite the bullet and live with him for another 6 months? Or sacrifice all of my savings and break the lease? I'm terrified of being alone...he's like family...before we moved marriage was a topic, and now I don't understand why he acts the way he does and then blames it all on me.
LifeIsGreat Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 I think you should approach him maturely and rationally and suggest you guys see a couples counseler.
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