Hustle10 Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 My ex and I broke up in August 2010 and we both went immediate NC until a couple of weeks ago. I've been thinking about her a lot ever since and come to find out she has been too. We both want to get back together and try this again, but there are some complications. We're both at university and I live with roommates and she lives at her parents (we used to live together). We broke up mainly because of my friends (who are now my roommates). Her parents pushed a bunch of legal stuff against me (since cleared up) that she didn't want any part of (ie, they hate me for breaking up with their daughter). How do we go about giving this a second chance? I can't go over to her parents and she can't come over to my apartment, but we both want to hang out. We're worried about running into people we know. I'm a big boy I can tell my mates to piss off and that it's my life if they find out. Her parents are another matter, they have good relations and she lives with them and they hate me. If they were to find out it could be detrimental to their relationship and would make things difficult for her at home.
2010_Sorry Posted January 3, 2011 Posted January 3, 2011 She needs to tell her parents that she wants to reconcile with you, and ask for their support. You can't do anything until she does this... No relationship is successful if it is a secret...
SincereOnlineGuy Posted January 3, 2011 Posted January 3, 2011 My ex and I want to secretly get back together... Does she even know about this???? The reasons her parents hate you are exactly why she should never learn that you (both, apparently) "want to get back together".
Author Hustle10 Posted January 3, 2011 Author Posted January 3, 2011 yes dumbass learn to read I said both.. meaning that we've been talking everyday and have been hanging out together..
poorguy Posted January 3, 2011 Posted January 3, 2011 I understand about the whole parents thing. That makes it a lot more complicated in my opinion for sure. Well I suppose what you guys should do is date or whatever without really bringing it to anyones attention because it's really nobodys business what the two of you do. From there after some time has gone by and both of you are happy together and want to actually move forward then tell the parents. There is no sense in doing it ahead of time-the reason is is because if it doesn't work out then nobody rally will no the difference
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