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I just want to thank everyone here for giving me an outlet to vent my frustrations. You have no idea how much this helps....

 

I've been lucky this month with my sent/reply ratio on OKC. Normally it doesn't amount to much except a nice little conversation regarding our profiles. However, I've had the pleasure of talking to one woman who has just blown my mind away.

 

I had always noticed her on OKC, but really didn't give her much thought because her % match was so low, but this time I decided to IM her. Luckily for me, she responded and we had an awesome discussion of the local music scene. She loves all my favorite bands, loves metal, digs all my favorite hangout spots. I just feel really happy to be able to talk to someone like this, but I slowly feel like shes losing interest.

 

After we spoke on IM I gave her my number and she texted me back right away with her real name. On New years eve she sent me ANOTHER text saying how she was thankful to find someone who had such "good taste in music...and in women ;)". I was very excited, and the thought of meeting her seemed more viable.

 

So the next day she messages me in the morning to add her on facebook, which I did. We spoke again on IM chat and I asked her to a local hookah bar and she agreed. She told me her work schedule , but was very open in the fact that TODAY( Sunday) she was getting off work early. I'm like " OK, I'll just see if she wants to go then"....NO REPLY!!

 

No big deal though right?? I didn't send any texts, any phonecalls...nothing. I wanted to wait for her...but this morning when I woke up, I still hadn't received anything. So I sent her text just to clarify what we were doing.

 

She writes back " Oh, I'm so sorry but I have to write an article today...maybe later this week". Feeling relieved( and a little blown off) I wrote back " Yea sure, just let me know". The reason why I feel so ****ty though is because I didn't realize that she had fallen asleep most likely to get up early for work , and that she was working when I sent the text.....Now I feel like I messed things up...yet again.

 

Thanks to those who've given the time to read my rant XD.

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The best you can do in the situation is stop thinking. If she doesnt contact you . Write her in a couple of days to see if she is available then . Best of luck ...

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