Vickstar Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 I have already posted this but i want more opinions, 3 months ago my ex bf broke up with me, he only spoke to me twice the week after we split and i kept the responces short and sweet, then a few weeks ago out of no where he removes me as a friend on facebook which made me mad as i havent done anything wrong and i was nothing but nice to him during our relationship, i txt him "why did u remove me, im just curious?" and he replied "cos we dont speak anymore" i replied "would u like us to talk more often?" and he replied "no its best to leave it, and i dont think we will be bumping into each other any time sooner, sorry" and that was it, havent spoken to him since. Im still sticking to NC, i will never beg for him to come back to me, but i still think that after that message he will never come back, what do you think? Do dumpers change their minds after a while?
Karma20 Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 Anything can happen and anyone can change their mind. Its best you're not friends on fb. I deleted an ex off fb a couple months after breaking up because I needed to get over him. No one knows what your ex is thinking or if he'll change his mind. Only time and hin knows the answers to the questions you have. Stick to NC and move on.
Jake99 Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 I have already posted this but i want more opinions, 3 months ago my ex bf broke up with me, he only spoke to me twice the week after we split and i kept the responces short and sweet, then a few weeks ago out of no where he removes me as a friend on facebook which made me mad as i havent done anything wrong and i was nothing but nice to him during our relationship, i txt him "why did u remove me, im just curious?" and he replied "cos we dont speak anymore" i replied "would u like us to talk more often?" and he replied "no its best to leave it, and i dont think we will be bumping into each other any time sooner, sorry" and that was it, havent spoken to him since. Im still sticking to NC, i will never beg for him to come back to me, but i still think that after that message he will never come back, what do you think? Do dumpers change their minds after a while? Vicstar, sorry to hear that you are in the same boat as many of us here. Good for you to continue NC. There are plenty of people here with really good advice and they will encourage you to work on yourself but no one can tell you if your ex will come back. Work on yourself and do things for you. Keep busy and be around people close to you that are there for you and only you!! My ex gf dumped me at the beginning of November and communication was sporadic. I went into NC and have been that was for a month now. She emailed me a merrry christmas note and I deleted immediately without reading it. I work out 4-5 days a week at a gym and I work on me. I miss her here and there but I refuse to be disrespected or disrespect myself. Her loss as far as I'm concerned. Keep moving forward. Good luck
LifeIsGreat Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 I think the major take away you will get through reading through LS-- Assume your ex is NOT coming back, and live your life accordingly.
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