Jamers22 Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 (edited) so i met this girl, and we hit it off right away. at first, we were just really good friends. from the moment we met, we were best friends. we would talk on the phone for hours, text eachother all day, use instant messengers online for hours, and soon it got to the point where we both had different feelings for each other. i was always telling her how pretty she is, (despite the pain and suffering she has put me through i will never be able to deny the fact that she is beautiful) and she was always telling me how nice i was, how great of a boyfriend i would be, she told me that she couldnt believe i had never been in a serious relationship, and i told her that i was waiting for her. we never really got together, though only the title was missing. we hung out all the time, we kissed all the time, i got to hold her hand, i really really loved her, and she made it seem that she loved me too. well, one day she sent me a text message that wasnt supposed to go to me, talking about how annoying it is that all i tried to do was make her happy. i confronted her, and she told me that she was now dating my cousin. what is really bad about this is i still see both of them regularly. i still have feelings for her, though i wish i didnt, and she still says she has feelings for me but it just was not meant to be, so we need to be best friends. it is just so hard for me to see them together, when they both know how much i loved her. she calls me crying, telling me how stupid she is for not being with me cause she gets treated like ****, she still tells me how great of a boyfriend i would be, and tells me how lucky she is to have a great friend like me. i hate it and it just kills me. any advice?? all responses are highly appreciated. Edited January 2, 2011 by Jamers22
january2010 Posted January 3, 2011 Posted January 3, 2011 If she really wanted to be with you, she would be with you and not your cousin. Go NC. You don't need to have their relationship flaunted in front of you. It only causes you pain. You also don't need to be her "best friend" and listen to her complaining about your cousin, when you want to be more than that.
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