Vickstar Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 3 months ago my ex bf broke up with me, he only spoke to me twice the week after we split and i kept the responces short and sweet, then a few weeks ago out of no where he removes me as a friend on facebook which made me mad as i havent done anything wrong and i was nothing but nice to him during our relationship, i txt him "why did u remove me, im just curious?" and he replied "cos we dont speak anymore" i replied "would u like us to talk more often?" and he replied "no its best to leave it, and i dont think we will be bumping into each other any time sooner, sorry" and that was it, havent spoken to him since. Im still sticking to NC, i will never beg for him to come back to me, but i still think that after that message he will never come back, what do you think? Do dumpers change their minds after a while?
january2010 Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 He's already taken steps to remove you from his life. That's a clear message. I suggest focusing on NC and getting your life back on track.
Author Vickstar Posted January 2, 2011 Author Posted January 2, 2011 just cant believe that someone who i did everything for, worshipped the ground he walked on would just say something like that, i'd be happy if we only stayed friends and nothing else and he wont even do that, even tho when we split we said that we'd remain friends, it just baffles me.
january2010 Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 just cant believe that someone who i did everything for, worshipped the ground he walked on would just say something like that, i'd be happy if we only stayed friends and nothing else and he wont even do that, even tho when we split we said that we'd remain friends, it just baffles me. It is unbelievable but you must believe it. For the moment, you have no choice, unfortunately. Right now, you want to stay friends but that's probably not a good idea because you're not emotionally ready to handle that. When he said he wanted to remain friends, it was probably as a backup in case he wanted to come back. But it now looks like he's more confident about his position and thus he's decided to remove you from his life. You really need to do the same and move on. Go full NC (delete and block).
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