no_clue Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 LOL the title is just to get your attention i was just thinking about it and wondering why when people bring there kids around me, say from babies to 10 year olds, i dont have nothing to say about them or to them. I am not attracted to children in anyway so thats not the case. When people i know want to show me there newborn or their child i feel like they expect me to play with the child and talk to it. I guess im just not good makin stupid baby noises and holding little babys and all that. So if anyone knows what this could mean i would appreciate it because i have a brother with two kids and i would like to bond with them one day before its to late
TaraMaiden Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 You're not paternal and have no affinity with children. It's not a crime, but you need to let people know this, in as kind a way as you can. Just view kids as very small adults with different ideas, little life experience, but a whole load of occasional innocent wisdom. That might help.
HeavenOrHell Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 I am the same! I'm female in my 40's, never wanted kids, so didn't have any, have no interest in babies at all or kids, as a woman I am expected to think babies are cute and to want to hold them and coo over them, I always hope babies won't be handed to me as I dont know what to do with them, I find them boring and tedious, just like most humans really People seem to think babies or kids are cute just cos they're young and naive. Some kids are ok I guess, the geeky ones who like books and animals and who aren't hyper running around disrespecting my house and my stuff, ugh. My best mate was bullied badly at school, the whole class would be onto her, so that's partly shaped my view that kids can be nasty and vindictive.
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